Siphila kuluntu oluxakekileyo apho yonke into kufuneka ikhawuleze. Asazi ukuba silinde njani kwaye xa kufuneka siyenzile, inika ixhala. Kubonakala ngathi umonde uyabonakala ngokungabikho koluntu oluhamba ngaphandle kweziqhoboshi, ngaphandle kolawulo kwaye lujonga ixesha.
Umonde uhlala uthule kwaye ubuqili kakhulu, akuqhelekanga kubonwa esidlangalaleni. Umzekelo, xa utata ebalisa ibali lakhe lesithathu kunyana wakhe kuba engafuni ukulala, xa imbaleki yenzakele kwaye kufuneka ilinde iinyanga ezi-3 ukuze iphinde ichache… Kwelinye icala, ukungabi namonde kuba sesidlangalaleni kwaye kutsala ingqalelo yomntu wonke; Umqhubi ukhalisa uphondo ngokungakhathali ukuze agqithise irobhothi esandula ukujika ibe luhlaza, abathengi emgceni kwivenkile ethengisa ukutya erhona kwingxaki kwirejista yemali, njl.
Ukubaluleka komonde
Ukuba nomonde kuthetha ukukwazi ukulinda ngokuzolileyo xa ujongene nokukhathazeka okanye ubunzima, ke naphina apho kukho ukuphazamiseka okanye ubunzima, Oko kukuthi, phantse kuyo yonke indawo, sinethuba lokuziqhelanisa ... kufuneka ufune nje ukuyenza!
Ekhaya nabantwana bethu, emsebenzini kunye noogxa bethu, evenkileni nesiqingatha sabemi besixeko emgceni ... umonde ungenza umahluko phakathi kokucaphuka kunye nokulingana, phakathi kokukhathazeka nokuzola. Iinkolo kunye nefilosofi kudala bancoma ukulunga komonde, kwaye kufanelekile! Ngoku iingcali kunye nabaphandi benza njalo. Ewe, izinto ezintle ziyenzeka ngokwenene kwabo bakwaziyo ukulinda. Ngesi sizathu kufuneka sifunde ukulinda ebomini.
Umonde unxulunyaniswa nokufezekisa iinjongo kunye nokuba sempilweni
Indlela eya empumelelweni inde, kwaye abo banganamonde, abafuna ukubona iziphumo ngokukhawuleza, banokungavumi ukuhamba ngayo. Umzekelo, abantu abafuna yonke into ngoku, abafuna owona msebenzi ubalaseleyo, owona mvuzo mhle, owona mgangatho uphezulu kuyo yonke into ... Ukusebenza nzima nokusebenza nzima. Ekugqibeleni bashiyeke bengenanto kuba nokuba banayo, abayazi ukuba bayinike njani ixabiso eliyifaneleyo.
Abantu abagulayo bayayixabisa iinzame kwaye xa besenza njalo, bayayazi indlela yokuxabisa izinto ngakumbi, into ebavumela ukuba babenombulelo ngakumbi kwaye bonwabele ubomi ngakumbi kunabo baphelelwe ngumonde. Abantu abanomonde phakathi kwabantu bayakwazi ukuqhubela phambili kwiinjongo zabo kwaye bazive bonelisekile xa bekufezile.
Njengokuba oko kwakunganelanga, umonde uyanceda ukuba uhlale ngoxolo, ke impilo yakho iya kuphuculwa kuzo zonke iinkalo. Abantu abagulayo babengenamathuba okuba neengxaki zempilo ezinje ngeentloko, amabala, izilonda, urhudo kunye nenyumoniya.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Abantu abaphelelwa ngumonde okanye bacaphuke baya kuba neengxaki zempilo kunye nokulala. Ukuba umonde ungalunciphisa uxinzelelo lwethu lwemihla ngemihla, kusengqiqweni ukucinga ukuba unokusikhusela nakwimiphumela yezempilo yoxinzelelo.
Indlela yokuba nomonde ngakumbi
Ukuba nomonde ngakumbi ebomini kuya kukuzisela izibonelelo kuphela, ke kusengqiqweni ukuba ufuna ukusebenzela ngaphakathi kwakho. Umonde uyakukunceda uphile ngoxolo olukhulu nangaphezulu kwako konke, ukuze ube nakho ukujongana ngcono nezithintelo onokuba nazo ebomini. Okulandelayo siza kukuxelela ezinye zezitshixo zokuphucula umonde ebomini bakho.
Yitshintshe imeko
Ukuphelelwa ngumonde ayisiyompendulo yeemvakalelo ezizenzekelayo. Ikwabandakanya iingcinga kunye neenkolelo. Ukuba umntu osebenza naye ufike kade entlanganisweni, ungathetha ngokungabi nantlonelo okanye ujonge loo mizuzu iyi-15 njengethuba lokufunda. Umonde unxulunyaniswa nokuzeyisa, Ukuzama ukuzazi kakuhle iimvakalelo zethu kunokusinceda siqeqeshe ukuzeyisa.
Ziqhelise ukukhumbula
Abantu abakwaziyo ukukhumbula iinyanga ezintandathu ubuncinci baye bangangxami kwaye bazimisele ngakumbi ukulindela izinto ezintle ebomini. Ngesi sizathu, ukukhumbula okanye ukucamngca yinto enokwenziwa mihla le. Ngamanye amaxesha uthatha nje umoya ophefumlayo kwaye uqaphele imvakalelo yomsindo okanye ukoyisa, kunokwanela ukufunda ukuphendula ngomonde kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
Yiba nombulelo
Abantu abanombulelo balunge ngakumbi ngomonde wokulibazisa ukoneliseka. Xa umntu enombulelo ngento anayo namhlanje, abaziva bephelelwe lithemba lokuba nezinto ezininzi okanye ukuphucula iimeko zabo ngokukhawuleza nangaphantsi, ukuba ngomonde ungayiphumeza ngokuhamba kwexesha imeko yakho iphucuka ngokumangalisayo.
Yeka ukwenza izinto ezingabalulekanga
Sonke sinezinto ebomini bethu ezithatha ixesha kwizinto ezibalulekileyo. Enye indlela yoxinzelelo kunye nokwandisa umonde kubomi bethu kukuyeka ukwenza ezo zinto. Thatha imizuzu embalwa uvavanye iveki yakho. Jonga ishedyuli yakho ukusuka kwixesha lokuvuka ukuya kwixesha lokulala. Khetha izinto ezimbini okanye ezintathu ozenzayo ezingabalulekanga kodwa thatha ixesha. Lixesha lokuba ufunde ukuthi hayi kwizinto zoxinzelelo kwaye zikwenze ungakhathali.
Nciphisa ubomi
Sithathekile kukufika kwangoko, ukuba nezinto kuqala, ukwenza izinto ngokukhawuleza ... isantya sivelisa iadrenaline kwaye ke ngoko kubonakala ngathi ukucotha yeyona nto imbi ikhoyo. Oku kusenza silibale eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu: eyona nto iyixabiso ithatha ixesha. Ngamaxesha athile, Umahluko phakathi kwezigqibo ezilungileyo nezingalunganga lixesha elithathwayo ukuzenza.
Wakha umhlaba wakho kunye nobomi bakho kwaye ukuba ufuna konke ngokukhawuleza, ngekhe wenze isakhiwo esiqinileyo. Nciphisa ubomi bakho kwaye izinto ziya kuvela ngcono kunokuba ubucinga ekuqaleni.
Ungazama ukuzikhusela ukukhungatheka nobunzima, kodwa ziza nommandla womntu. Ukuziqhelanisa nomonde kwiimeko zemihla ngemihla akuyi kwenza kuphela ukuba ubomi bube mnandi ngoku, kunokunceda ukuvula indlela eya kwikamva eliqaqambileyo neliphumelelayo.