Uluntu luzele kukungazi okufihliweyo kubulumko, kodwa inyani kukuba xa ibonakala kwindawo leyo ayiqhelekanga ukukhohlisa kakhulu. Kuyaziwa ukuba ngubani ongenakuthetha, kungcono uthule kuba yeyona nto ikrelekrele onokuyenza. Ngokukodwa xa ukuthula kuyeyona mpendulo intle xa ugxekwa okanye umona. Kwelinye icala, xa ucatshukiswa, ukuba kukho ingxoxo eshushu, kuyacaca ukuba ukungazi kubonakala kuzama ukulinganisa ubulumko.
Nangona ngamanye amaxesha siziva sikhathazwa kukugxekwa okanye ngamagqabantshintshi, kufanelekile ukuba nobukrelekrele ngaphezu kwayo yonke loo nto, kwaye nokwazi ukuba kumaxesha amaninzi kukho iimeko ekungafanelekanga ukuba zixoxwe. Amagama obudenge avela kubantu abaziziyatha akafanelanga kuthathelwa ngqalelo kwaye awubaniki amandla akufuneki uphazamise umphefumlo wakho. Xa iingqondo ezincinci zizama ukuzibonakalisa ukuba zikhulu, kungcono ukujonga ngaphandle kokunxibelelana ... bubungangamsha bakho!
Ukungazi ngumama wokunganyamezelani
Siphila kwindawo apho ukunganyamezelani kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa okuninzi kokunganyamezelani kubangelwa kukuswela ulwazi. Ukungazi nto yile: kukuswela ulwazi okanye inkcubeko. Ukungazi kuyakuthanda ukugxeka nokwenza izigqibo ngaphandle kokuba ube nolwazi oluyimfuneko malunga nokugxekayo okanye ukugweba. Ukungazi kuyadela phantse ungazi ukuba kutheni ... eli lelona nqanaba liphezulu lokungazi: ukwala into okanye umntu ungazi nokuba yintoni okanye ungayiqondi. Xa ungenalo ulwazi oluyimfuneko ukuze wazi okuphambi kwakho.
Ukungazi nokunganyamezelani kukhokelela ekuziphatheni okungahlaliyo, ukungabikho kwemvisiswano kunxibelelwano okanye ukuhlala kwabantu. Kodwa ukungazi ayisiyonto ikude kuwe, unokuhlala kufutshane, kwimeko-bume yakho. Nokuba awuziboni ungazi nto, unokubona ukungazi yonke imihla yobomi bakho. Abo bantu bagweba bengazi, ngaphandle kokukhathaza ukudibana nabanye ... Baziva befanelekile ukubagweba, ngenxa yeempazamo zabo, ukuzithemba kwabo okuphantsi… ukungazi kwabo. Ukungazi ngohlobo lokugxekwa kunokulimaza ngokweemvakalelo njengoko baba ngamazwi anetyhefu.
Qonda ukungazi ukuze ukwazi ukungahoyi
Umntu, xa ekhula kwaye ekhulisa ukuqonda kwakhe, akazukuqonda ukuba kutheni omnye umntu ekhetha ukuhlala ekungazini. Ngokwenyani, ukungazi kukungafuni nje ukutshintsha. Ukuba umntu akafikeleli kulwazi, kungenxa yokuba akafuni. Ukhetha ukuhlala kwindawo yakhe yokuthuthuzela egcwele intiyo nengqumbo.
Ukuba unabantu abakungqongileyo abakhetha ukuhlala ekungazini, sukuyicaphukela, yamkela nje isigqibo sabo kwaye ugcine isidima sakho, kuba iyakuba kuphela kwendlela onokuphila ngayo eluxolweni. Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukunqwala, uncume kwaye uthule. Gcina iimpikiswano zakho xa uphambi kwabantu abaneengqondo ezincinci abagqibe ekubeni bangavumeli ubukrelekrele babo bukhule. Hayi kuba bengakwazi, ukuba akunjalo, kuba abafuni kuyenza. Oku kunokuqondwa njenge: "Kumazwi obudenge, iindlebe zezithulu" (okanye iindlebe ezikrelekrele ngokwenene ...).
Ngamanye amaxesha ubukrelekrele kufuneka buthethe
Nangona kumaxesha amaninzi eyona nto ikrelekrele ukuyenza xa ujongene nokugxekwa okanye ukungazi amagama kukuthula, ngamanye amaxesha, ubukrelekrele kufuneka buthethe kwaye buzikhusele, bunyanzelekile ukuba busabele ukuze babonise isidima nokunyaniseka.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunyanzelekile ukuba uphakamise ilizwi lakho ngokuzithemba, ngovelwano nangokuzithemba okukhulu ukumisela imida ebusweni bokungazi. Ngokukodwa xa ingayeki ukuzama ukubadlulisa kaninzi ... njengaphambi kwabantu abazama ukukhohlisa, abo bazama ukuhlazisa okanye abo bazama ukunciphisa ulonwabo lwakho.
Ngubani ophikisayo kakhulu ... Uqonda kancinci
Abantu abaphikisanayo kaninzi ukuzama nje ukwenza abanye babone yonke into abayaziyo ngabo abayiqonda ncam. Akukho mntu unenyaniso yento yonke kwaye inyani iya kuhlala ipeyintwe ngama-nuances. Nabani na ozama ukuphikisa ukuba kutheni into "imhlophe ngokupheleleyo" okanye "imnyama ngokupheleleyo" emva koko ubonise ukungaguquguquki kwengqondo kunye nendlela akakwazi ukwamkela ukuba ubulumko bunokuba nemibala emininzi.
Umntu okrelekrele akazami kuphumelela kwiingxabano, kwaye akazicaphukisi ... Umntu okrelekrele uyazi ukuba kukho amadabi angakulungelanga ukulwa. Uxolo lwangaphakathi lomntu yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ukonwabela ubomi kwaye ungavumeli ukungazi ukuba kudake amanzi okuzola.
Ngubani ongxolayo, esona sizathu sincinci
Kukho abo bakholelwa ukuba nabani na okhwaza kakhulu ngubani ophela elungile, kodwa okwahlukileyo kuyinyani. Ngubani oyena mntu ukhwaza kakhulu, ubonakalisa ukungazi, ukungasebenzi kakuhle kunye nokudana ukungabinazixhobo (kwaye zamkelekile) ukuze akwazi ukubonisa ukucinga kwakhe.
Ukuphikisana amaxesha amaninzi kubonisa kuphela amandla asezantsi esizathu, kuba nabani na ofuna ngokwenene ukuzisa izikhundla kufutshane, akaphikisi ... thetha. Nabani na ophikisana phantsi komda wokungazi ufuna kuphela ukudala imeko enetyhefu egcwele ukungakhathali kunye noxinzelelo. Mhlawumbi ziipateni ezifundwe njengabantwana kodwa azithetheleleki kwaphela. Kuba kanye njengokuba indlela yokuziphatha engalunganga ifundwa, awufundanga ukufunda okunokukuzisela inzuzo kunye nokuphila ngokwasemphefumlweni.
Ukuze ukungazi kungakubambi, kufuneka uqonde ukuba ubomi buzele ziimpawu kwaye akukho mntu unenyani epheleleyo kuyo nantoni na. Ukukhwaza akuyi kukwenza ukuba ukrelekrele kwaye ukugxeka akuyi kukwenza umntu ongcono. Ulwazi ngamandla phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko kwaye yeyona nto inokukuxhobisa ngayo nayiphi na imeko.
Ngubani ophikisanayo ngokuba ne- iRazón, eneneni ulahlekelwe yinto yonke. Iimpikiswano zahlukanisa abantu kuphela kwaye zibonisa ukungazi kwiimeko ezithile. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nengqondo evulekileyo kuyo nayiphi na imeko, uphawule ... nayo yonke into eyityhefu okanye eyenzelwe ukuba yenzakalise, ngokulula ... mayidlule kwaye ingachaphazeli. Vumela kuphela ilizwi lobulumko ukuba live ukuba libeke imida esempilweni kwabo bantu banyanzelisa ukuba banetyhefu kuphela ngenxa yokungazi kwabo abakhethiweyo ngokuthanda kwabo.