Uvuyo luhamba nolonwabo kwaye zombini ziyimfuneko kwimpilo-ntle yakho yeemvakalelo ukuba ibe kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo ebomini bakho. Ukuze ube uphilile ngokwasemphefumlweni, kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukuba kufuneka usebenze kolo vuyo kwaye wonwabele wonke umzuzu obukunika ubomi. Sonke sifuna izinto ebomini esikholelwa ukuba ziya kusizisela ulonwabo, uvuyo, uxolo kunye nokukhuseleka, ingaba yimali engakumbi, uthando, okanye impilo ebhetele.
Akukho nto ingaphandle kuwe enokukwenza wonwabe okanye ikuzisele uvuyo ngokusisigxina. Ngaphezulu, Ezi ntlobo zovakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, kuninzi lwamatyala, ziyinto yethutyana okanye yokujikeleza. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuzilungisa kwaye wazi ukuba uyafuna, ungonwabela kwaye woyise iingcinga ezingalunganga ezinokuthi ngamanye amaxesha zithathe ingqondo yakho.
Kananjalo, nokuba iimeko zakho zobomi zimnandi kangakanani, uya kuqhubeka uziva iimvakalelo olikhoboka lazo. Imikhwa yokucinga ohamba nayo ngalo lonke ixesha imisela indlela oziva ngayo ixesha elininzi. Ebomini kufuneka usebenze kubugcisa bokuvuselela ulonwabo kunye novuyo, ukuze kwangaxeshanye funda ukuyeka ukuxhalaba, uxinzelelo, usizi kunye noxinzelelo.
Ukuba ufuna ukonwaba kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso zokukufeza. Ungaqala ukwazi ngakumbi ngamandla onawo ebomini bakho kunye nokuba iimeko zangaphandle akufuneki zikulawule njani. Ingaphakathi lakho lelona linamandla afanelekileyo okufezekisa ulungelelwaniso lweemvakalelo zakho.
Musa ukuleqa uvuyo okanye ulonwabo
Izandi ziyaphikisana, akunjalo? Ewe ayisiyiyo, yile nto kufuneka uyenze ngoku. Yonke imihla uya kufumana amathuba okonwaba okanye okuvuya, kodwa kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukuba uyabafumana. Awunakho ukulinda ulonwabo okanye uvuyo ukuza kuwe ngaphandle kokungaphezulu, kuya kufuneka wenze into encinci kwinxalenye yakho ukuyiphumeza.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ithuba vuyiswa kwaye wonwabele uvuyo sele lufikile. Ngamanye amaxesha ilungile phambi kwakho. Nokuba kungasiphi na isizathu, awungekhe utshintshe ujoliso lwakho uliqaphele kwaye ulixabise… kodwa nantoni na eyenzekayo macala onke, ungaziva wonwabile, wonwabe ngakumbi, unemveliso, utsala impumelelo, kwaye wonwabe kwinkqubo. Xa utshintsha umbono wakho kunye nendlela ocinga ngayo ngoku, indlela ocinga ngayo iyatshintsha ... kwaye ubomi buyaphucuka.
Nika ingqalelo kwinto oyithandayo
Ukuba oko kuthetha ukungahoyi olunye ulwazi malunga nehlabathi lokwenyani, makube njalo. Ngexesha lokudodobala koqoqosho lwehlabathi, xa iindaba zazimalunga nokusilela kwemisebenzi kunye nemali, Uninzi lwabantu luyekile ukubukela iindaba kuba zizisa kuphela iingcinga ezimbi kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo.
Licebo elilungileyo ukuthathela ingqalelo iingcinga ezikwenza uzive ulungile. Kuzo zonke iimeko, awona mathuba makhulu ebomini afunyenwe xa uvulelekile kwiingcinga ezilungileyo. Mhlawumbi kufuneka wenze utshintsho ebomini bakho othanda ukuphucula umgangatho wakho kunye nentlalontle yakho ngokubanzi. Nika ingqalelo kwinto oyithandayo yokufumana izinto ezilungileyo ngaphakathi kwentliziyo yakho.
Ukuba awunako ukuzinyamekela
Ukuziva wonwabile kwaye wonwabe ngaphakathi kuwe, kufuneka uzikhathalele. Ukuba awuyenzi, ngubani oza kukwenzela yona? Akukho namnye! Awuseyena umntwana, kwaye nguwe kuphela ophethe ukukhathalela impilo yakho yasemzimbeni nasengqondweni. Kubalulekile ukuba uthathe umzuzwana wokwenza izinto ozithandayo, kwaye ukuba kubangcono yonke imihla. Kuya kufuneka uthathe umzuzu wokuphumla, ukuphumla okanye ukuzonwabisa ...Kuba leyo yinxalenye yobomi!
Thatha ithuba lakho lokusebenza uvuyo, ukonwaba ... Kodwa sukuzenza izinto ezikwenza ungonwabi kuba becinga ngezinto ezikwenza uzive ungonwabanga, nokuba ziyimisebenzi okanye ziimpawu zobuqu. Awungekhe wenze into oyithandayo ukuba ingqondo yakho inxilile ziingcinga ezimbi. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba ingqondo icwangciselwe ukuba icinge ngento enye kuphela ngexesha, ke thatha ithuba lokujolisa kwinto oyithandayo kwaye uvumele iingcinga ezikukhathazayo ukuba zingabinandawo engqondweni yakho. A) Ewe Uyakwazi ukuba uqaphele ukubaluleka kokusebenza kwiimvakalelo zakho ezilungileyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Enye yeendlela eziqinisekileyo zokwenza ukuba ixesha lokuzilungisa likhanye kukuqinisekisa ukuba awuzikhupheli uxinzelelo kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo ngelixa uzama ukujonga isiphumo. Lungelelanisa ubomi bakho ukuze ixesha olinikeleyo libe lelona liphumelelayo. Lixesha lakho, khetha into ofuna ukuyenza (ukufunda, ezemidlalo, ukuhamba uhambo, ukuba kunye nomntu omthandayo, unakekele umfanekiso wakho, njl.), Kodwa wenze kakubi.
Imvakalelo echwayitileyo
Ukuba usebenzela ukuba nesimo sengqondo esonwabileyo, uyakuthi uqaphele ukuba ubomi bakho buya kuphucuka kancinci kancinci njengoko iintsuku zihamba. Imeko yokuqonda imeko yakho yengqondo iya kukwenza ukuba ukwazi ukufumana imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla evelisa impilo-ntle. Uya kuyilandela loo misebenzi uyenze kwaye ukuphela kosuku ufike ngoncumo ebusweni bakho.
Ubomi obonwabileyo bobona bomi sinokubunethemba lokubufumana. Luhlobo lobomi oluvelisa ukungcangcazela okuhle kunye namandla okuziva sonwabile, kwaye iyasikhuthaza ukuba sijonge kwikamva sinethemba eliphezulu. Uvuyo olunyulu lunokubonakala ngathi luyinto edlulayo, kodwa nokuba uyaziva okomzuzwana, ungabambelela kuyo. Xa uziva iimvakalelo ezilungileyo kuwe, ke, njengawo nawuphi na umlutha (kodwa oku kulungile), uya kufuna ukuziva yonke imihla yobomi bakho. Uya kufuna ukwenza yonke into owazikhanyele yona ngaphambili ngenxa yeengcinga zakho ezimbi kodwa ngoku, uyakwazi ukwenza kwaye wonwabe.
Zixabise izinto ezincinci
Ukuze ukwazi ukuhleka ngakumbi ebomini, kubalulekile ukuba uqale uxabise izinto ezincinci ezenzekayo. Kungenxa yokuba uvuyo nolonwabo zifumaneka kubomi obulula bemihla ngemihla. Sonke sinazo; loo mizuzu mincinci okanye izinto ezihlala ziqwalaselwa okanye azixatyiswa kuba sicinga ukuba azibalulekanga okanye Sithatha kancinci kuba sihlala kwinkcubeko ebhiyozela impumelelo enkulu kuphela.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba senza umkhwa wokubhiyozela izinto ezincinci? Ubomi bokwenyani buyenzeka ngeenxa zonke kuthi njengoko silinde into enkulu ocinga ukuba iya kukuzisela uhlobo loxolo lwangaphakathi, ukoneliseka okanye uvuyo. Inyani yile yokuba amaxesha amaninzi izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zezona zincinci ... kwaye Zizo eziza kukuzisela zonke iimvakalelo ezilungileyo ngaphakathi kwakho.