Ukuzethemba kuyisisekelo senhlalakahle yengane futhi kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo empilweni yayo yokuba mdala, kuthinta indlela yayo yokwenza nokuziphatha nabanye, ukungabikho kwesithombe esihle sayo kaningi kuholela ezinkingeni zokuziphatha.
Ukuzethemba okunempilo Akusho ukuzikhukhumeza, kusho ukuthi une ukuqonda okungokoqobo kwamandla nobuthakathaka ngokwakho, jabulela amandla akho bese usebenza ezindaweni ezinenkinga.
Ngokuya ngenani elikhulu lophenyo, abantu abanokuzethemba okuphezulu, ngaphandle kokuthi kube ngokweqile, bangaba nombono omuhle ngempilo ngakho-ke bajabule kakhulu kunabantu abazenyeza. Nalokhu kubikezelwa nokuthi ukuzethemba okulungile kuzoholela empumelelweni ethe xaxa esikoleni nobudlelwano kwezenhlalo futhi ukuzethemba okonakele kungaholela ekucindezelekeni nokwehluleka okukhulu empilweni.
Kubalulekile ukufundisa izingane nabantu abasha amakhono ukubhekana nezehlakalo zempilo yansuku zonke, ngaphandle kokuvumela lokhu kuthinte ukuzethemba kwabo, nakulesi sigaba sobusha, bavame ukungazethembi kakhulu futhi bangazethembi kangako. Yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi abazali nothisha baxhase izingane futhi bazifundise ukuqinisa amasu okukhulisa ukuzethemba kwabo.
Amathiphu okusiza ukukhulisa ukuzethemba nokuzethemba kwengane yakho:
1) Zama ukwenza imibono eyakhayo kaningi - Abazali banethonya elikhulu ezinganeni zabo, badinga ukuzwa amazwi okuvuma ukuze bazizwe bethandwa futhi bethandwa, kumele bahalaliselwe futhi babonwe njalo lapho benza okuthile kahle.
2) Chitha isikhathi nezingane- Noma ngabe umatasa kakhulu, zama ukuchitha isikhathi esisezingeni elifanele nezingane zakho, lokhu kuzokusiza wakhe ubudlelwano obungcono futhi ubenze bazizwe bethandwa, besekelwa futhi baziswa.
3) balalele- Izingane zidinga ukuveza imizwa yazo, kubalulekile ukuzivumela zikhulume futhi zibanake, zibenze babone ukuthi uvulelekile ukulalela imibono nemicabango yabo.
4) Klomelisa umzamo ngaphandle komphumela- Okubalulekile ukuthi uyiqhakambise imizamo yezingane, noma ngabe iphumelele noma yehlulekile, kufanele ubenze babone ukuthi ukusebenza kanzima kuhlala kugcina ngokuklonyeliswa.
5) Gxila kokuhle- Ukuba nethemba kuletha indawo enempilo nezolile yengane, lo mkhathi uzonikeza ingane ukuphepha okukhulu ukuze kuthi nasezimeni ezinzima ifunde ukubona uhlangothi oluhle.
6) Msize afunde emaphutheni akhe- Fundisa ingane yakho ukubona amaphutha njengezindlela zokufunda, umkhombise umehluko phakathi kwamaphutha nokwehluleka, ukuze azi ukuthi kungcono ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuzama okuthile kunokungakwenzi ngenxa yokwesaba ukwehluleka, ukuphumelela, kufanele uqale wenze amaphutha .
7) Gcina ukuthintana ngokomzimba- Wanga futhi ukhuthaze izingane zakho, kubalulekile ukukhombisa uthando, lokhu kuzozenza zizizwe zikhethekile futhi zisekelwa nguwe, ngaphezu kokudala ukuzethemba okukhulu.
8) Khuthaza ukuxhumana- Ngokukhuthaza ukuxhumana nezingxoxo, ukhombisa ukuthi uyawazisa umbono nemibono yengane yakho, lokhu kuzoyinika ukuzethemba futhi kuyikhuthaze ukuthi ivuleke futhi iveze imibono yayo.
9) Vumela ingane yakho ifunde imiphumela yayo- Awukwazi ukusiza izingane ukuthi zingenzi amaphutha, zizozenza futhi zingafunda kuzo, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela zizokwazi ukuthi izenzo zinemiphumela, kepha singakhuthaza kuzo umuzwa wokuba nomthwalo wemfanelo ngaphambi kwamaphutha enziwe.
Siyakuhalalisela ngendatshana.