Umkhuba okhethwayo wabantu abanobuciko obukhulu

Ukuze uvulekele ubuciko, umuntu kufanele abe nekhono lokusebenzisa isizungu ngokwakhayo. Kumele unqobe ukwesaba ukuba wedwa. "~Kwangathi ukugoqa

Ukudala kuyisihloko esingenangqondo, esingenangqondo futhi esingithandayo ngokungapheli - kusebenza kanjani? Yimiphi imikhuba abantu abanobuciko ebenza baphumelele kangaka? Sizoyibona kungekudala kodwa ngikumema kuqala ukuthi ubuke le vidiyo enesihloko esithi "Izimfihlo zobuciko."

Kule vidiyo uKen Robinson usichazela ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezibalulekile ukuze abantu babe nobuciko:

[Ngincoma wena "Izindlela eziyi-12 zokukhuthaza ubuhlakani bakho"]

Ngibonile ngemikhuba yami yokudala, kepha nginqume ukuthi ngizobheka imikhuba yabanye. Ngithathe okuncane kokudala, cishe ngokungahleliwe. Baningi kakhulu ukuthi ukukhetha okungcono kakhulu bekungeke kwenzeke ngakho-ke ngabona abanye babantu engibathandayo abafika emqondweni wami lapho ngicabanga ngegama elithi "ukudala."

Lo mbhalo ubuzoba uhlu lwemikhuba yakho yokudala… kepha ngemuva kokubuyekeza uhlu lwakho nemikhuba yami ngithole eyodwa evelele. Futhi kuyabonakala uma ubuyekeza imikhuba nezingcaphuno zabadali abakhulu bomlando.

Umkhuba # 1 ukufeza ubuhlakani

Kungumkhuba obaluleke kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngobuciko. Ngegama elilodwa: isizungu.

Ubuciko bukhula bodwa. Ngokulula ungalalela imicabango yakho, ungangena ngaphakathi kuwe, ungagxila.

Vele, kunezindlela eziningi zokuthola lesi sizungu. Ake sizwe kwabanye babantu bokudala engikhulume nabo:

Usuku lukaFelicia - umlingisi omuhle.

Ngangijabule lapho ephendula i-imeyili yami ebuza ngemikhuba yakhe yokudala. Enye yezinto athe: "ubuhlakani buza ekuseni, ngaphambi kokwenza noma yini emhlabeni wangaphandle."

U-Ali Edwards - umbhali, umklami, kanye negunya eliholayo ku-scrapbooking.

Ngiphinde ngahlonishwa ngokuthola impendulo evela ku-Ali. Enye yemikhuba yakhe kwakungekhona isizungu ncamashi, kodwa esasihlobene: “Ungenzi lutho. Isikhathi sokuvuselelwa kwempilo lapho umthwalo wami kuphela ukuba ngumama, unkosikazi kanye Nami kuphela. Ukwenza lutho kuyindlela yokuhlanganisa okubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yami nasemsebenzini wami, futhi kuyangikhuthaza. Uma ngibuyela emsebenzini ngihlonyiselwe kangcono ukusika izinto ezingabalulekile futhi ngigxile ezintweni engifuna ukuziveza kakhulu ngezindlela zokudala. "

Chase jarvis - umthwebuli wezithombe owine imiklomelo.

UChase uphinde waphendula ngomusa ngemikhuba yakhe eminingana yokwenza izinto ngobuciko - bona okubaluleke kakhulu ezansi kwalokhu okuthunyelwe. Kepha nakhu ebengikuthanda: «Thola ukuthula. Ubuhlakani kwesinye isikhathi abuveli ngezikhathi zokuhlushwa okukhulu nokusebenza ubuhlanya, kepha kuvame ukuvela lapho nginesikhathi ohlelweni lwami. Ngijwayele ukuzihlelela ukuhlehla. Nginemibono emihle futhi ngishaja kabusha amabhethri ami ngesikhathi samaholide, noma ezindizeni, kepha ukuhlehla kugxile kakhulu ekucabangeni ngezinkinga zokudala. Yingakho ngithatha isikhathi ngenhloso. Ngingenza ngamabomu ithuba lokusungula. Isibonelo esihle kakhulu salokho engikuqondayo ngokuhlehla ukuchitha impelasonto egumbini lomndeni wami. Kukhona iziphazamiso ezimbalwa. Ibhishi elinamadwala kuphela kanye nendlu yamapulangwe enamapulangwe engama-60. Ukuhamba, ukulala, ukufunda. Okubalulekile ukuthula. Makube khona isikhala sobuhlakani sokugcwalisa ubuchopho bakho. "

Maciej Ceg? Owski - Umdwebi omuhle kakhulu, umdidiyeli wohlelo nomlobi.

UMaciej unenye yamabhulogi engiwathandayo, futhi uphendule i-imeyili yami ngempendulo emfushane equkethe indlela enhle yokuthola ukuba wedwa.

Ingabe unomkhuba okusiza ukuba ube nobuciko?

UMaciej uphendule wathi: "Gibela umqansa!"

Leo Baba: Angizange ngikhulume ngami kulokhu okuthunyelwe, kodwa ngicabange ukuthi kufanele ngabelane ngeminye yemibono yami yangaphambilini.

Ubuciko obuhle kakhulu benziwa bodwa, ngesizathu esihle: kuphela lapho sisodwa lapho singabuka ngaphakathi kwengqondo yethu futhi sithole iqiniso, ubuhle, umphefumulo. Abanye babafilosofi abadume kakhulu bathatha uhambo lwansuku zonke futhi kwakukuzo lezo zindawo lapho bathola khona imicabango yabo ejulile.Imibhalo yami emihle kakhulu yayenzelwe wedwa.

Izinzuzo ezimbalwa engizitholile kusuka kwisizungu:

* Isikhathi sokucabanga
* siyazazi
* sibhekene namademoni ethu
* isikhala sokudala
* isikhala sokuphumula futhi uthole ukuthula
* Isikhathi sokucabanga ngalokho esikwenzile
* Ukuhlukaniswa namathonya abanye kusisiza ukuthi sithole izwi lethu
* kusisiza ukuba sazise izinto ezincane kakhulu ezilahlekile ngomsindo

NguLeo Babauta