Ngeshwa, ukungalingani ngokobulili kusabonakala ezimpilweni zethu. Emphakathini kusenabantu abanengqondo egxilile esikhathini esedlule ebambezela ukuvela kwesintu ngokungazi. Kukhona labo namuhla abacabanga ukuthi abesifazane baneqhaza eliphansi emphakathini, kanti empeleni kuyindima efanayo naleyo umuntu anayo. Akusekho okungaphansi.
Owesifazane uyakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi efanayo nowesilisa nowesilisa imisebenzi efanayo nowesifazane. Ukushiya eceleni, kunjalo, inkinga yokuzala noma yokondla ingane ngokuncelisa. Inhlonipho nenkululeko akuxoxiswana ngakho emphakathini ngakho-ke abesifazane kumele bazizwe ukuthi banamandla ezimpilo zabo.
Thuthukisa abesifazane
Ukuhlomisa abesifazane akuyona nje 'into yabesifazane'. Kuyinto yomuntu futhi. Sonke siyalingana futhi sonke sinamalungelo nezibopho ezifanayo njengomphakathi. Kuyadingeka ukuqeda imicabango yamehlo engasasebenzi evumela abesifazane ukuthi bahlupheke noma kuphi emhlabeni ngenxa yokuba ngowesifazane.
Ngenxa yakho konke abesifazane abake bakulwela emlandweni noma lokho abakwazile ukukuhlula, abesifazane banganquma ngokukhululeka kwezinye izingxenye zomhlaba. Inhloso ukuthi abesifazane baphile ngaphandle kokwesaba amadoda, ukuthi banezwi futhi bavote noma kuphi emhlabeni nokuthi kanye, ukucabanga kwamehlo kuphelile.
Kunabesifazane abaningi okuthe emlandweni nanamuhla banikeze izinkulumo, ama-manifesto abhaliwe noma izincwadi ukuze bakhe umhlaba olinganayo nolungile kubo bonke, kwabesilisa nabesifazane. Ukufundisa ngobufazi kusho ukukhuluma ulimi nokulahla izindima zobulili ingunaphakade. Kuyadingeka ukunikeza umuzwa wokuthi ungubani, ubulili obulinganayo, ukuxabisa umehluko kepha namakhono, ukufundisa ukuthi uthando ukunika ... kodwa futhi wamukele.
Ngokulandelayo sizocaphuna amanye amabinzana avela kwabesifazane abadumile besikhathi esedlule nanamuhla, abangabesifazane, bazokwenza ucabange ukuthi abesifazane kufanele baqhubeke nokuzinika amandla kanjani namuhla.
Imishwana yabesifazane ezokwenza ukhombise
- "Asazi ubude bethu beqiniso kuze kube siyasukuma." U-Emily Dickinson, imbongi yaseMelika
- 'Angikaze ngikwazi ukuthola kahle ukuthi buyini ubufazi; Ngiyazi nje ukuthi abantu bangibiza njengomuntu wesifazane lapho ngiveza imizwa engihlukanisa ne-doormat. ' URebecca entshonalanga
- 'Ubuntu besifazane abenzelwe abesifazane kuphela, buvumela wonke umuntu ukuthi abe nempilo ephelele.' UJane Fonda, umlingisi nesishoshovu sezepolitiki
- 'Ngiyenqaba ukuhlala emhlabeni ojwayelekile njengowesifazane ojwayelekile. Ukusungula ubudlelwano obujwayelekile. Ngidinga injabulo. Ngine-neurotic, ngomqondo wokuthi ngihlala emhlabeni wami. Ngeke ngivumelane nomhlaba wami. Ngizijwayela. '' U-Anaïs Nin, umbhali
- 'Kufanele sishintshe umbono wethu, indlela esizibona ngayo. Kumele siqhubekele phambili singabesifazane futhi sithathe isinyathelo kuqala. ' UBeyoncé, umculi waseMelika
- 'Bangifundise ukukholelwa ukuthi ukwenza kahle kakhulu kuyindlela engcono yokunqoba ukucwasa noma ukucwasana ngokobulili. Futhi ngiyilawula kanjalo impilo yami. ' U-Oprah Winfrey, intatheli nomlingisi
- "Impilo iyanweba noma incipha ngokulingana nokuthi unesibindi esingakanani." U-Anaïs Nin, umbhali
- "Asikho isithiyo, ukhiye noma ibhawodi ongayibeka enkululekweni yengqondo yami." UVirginia Woolf, umbhali
- 'Ngamunye wenu angaba ngumholi futhi asekele abanye ukuze bakufinyelele.' UMichelle Obama, ummeli nowayengunkosikazi wokuqala
- 'Lapho ngikhuluma kakhulu ngobufazi, kulapho ngibona khona ukuthi ukukhuluma ngamalungelo abesifazane kudidekile nokuzonda abesilisa futhi uma kukhona engikwaziyo, lokhu kumele kuyeke.' U-Emma Watson, umlingisikazi kanye neNxusa Lokuthakazelelwa Kwabesifazane leUN
- 'Awuzona izimo zakho, ungamathuba. Uma ukwazi lokho, ungenza noma yini. ' U-Oprah Winfrey, intatheli nomlingisi
- "Ungazizwa uyisilima uma ungathandi lokho abanye abantu abazenza abakuthandayo." U-Emma Watson, umlingisikazi kanye neNxusa Lokuthakazelelwa Kwabesifazane leUN
- "Uma sesikhathele ukufuna imvume, sithola ukuthi kuba lula ukuthola inhlonipho." UGloria Steinem, intatheli yaseMelika nesishoshovu
- Amasiko awenzi abantu: abantu benza amasiko. Uma kuyiqiniso ukuthi ubuntu besifazane obugcwele akuyona inkambiso yethu, ngakho-ke singakwazi futhi kumele sikwenze isiko lethu. ' UChimamanda Ngozi Adichie, umbhali wamanoveli waseNigeria
- "Musa ukudwengula abanye besifazane, ngoba noma bengebona abangane bakho, bangabesifazane futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu." URoxane Gay, umbhali waseMelika
- "Into ekhanga kakhulu umuntu wesifazane angaba nayo ukuzethemba." UBeyoncé, umculi waseMelika
- 'Ukwesaba okusenza silahlekelwe ulwazi lwethu. Yikhona futhi okusenza sibe ngamagwala. ' UMarjane Satrapi, umbhali nomdwebi we-Franco-Iranian
- 'Inkululeko nobulungiswa ngeke kwehlukaniswe ngokwezinhloso zethu zepolitiki. Angicabangi ukuthi ungalwela inkululeko yeqembu elilodwa labantu bese uyiphika kwelinye. ' UCoretta Scott King, umbhali waseMelika nesishoshovu
- "Ubufazi yikhono lokukhetha ukuthi ufuna ukwenzani." UNancy reagan
- 'Ngiyenqaba ukwenza ngendlela abantu besilisa abafuna ngenze ngayo.' UMadonna, umculi waseMelika
- 'Ngiyabazonda abesilisa abesaba amandla abesifazane.' U-Anaïs Nin, umbhali
- 'Yebo, ngingowesifazane, anginakho ukuzikhethela. Ngingowesifazane olwe yedwa. ' URocío Jurado, umculi waseSpain
- 'Angifuni ukuthi abesifazane babe namandla phezu kwabantu besilisa, kodwa babe namandla phezu kwabo.' UMary Wollstonecraft, umbhali
- 'Angiyona inyoni; futhi alikho inetha elingibambayo; Ngingumuntu okhululekile onomoya ozimele. ' UCharlotte Brontë, umbhali.
- 'Isitha akusona umlomo womlomo, kodwa sinecala ngokwalo; Sifanele i-lipstick, uma siyifuna, nenkululeko yokukhuluma; Sikufanele ukuba ocansini futhi sizimisele - noma yini esiyithandayo. Sinelungelo lokugqoka amabhuzu ama-cowboy kunguquko yethu. ' UNawomi Wolf, umbhali
Uma ufuna ukwazi imishwana eminingi yabesifazane abadumile emlandweni kune kufanele zikhunjulwe futhi zibe nazo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kungena lapha. Uzothola imishwana engaphezu kwengama-70, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ongathanda ukuyithola.