Masibhekane nakho, kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala sengathi impilo yakho iyawohloka ngokungenakulungiseka. Mhlawumbe ulahlekelwe ngumsebenzi, noma umshado wakho usanda kuphela, noma ubungeke uphumelele esivivinyweni futhi manje uvele uzizwe ungenalusizo, uhluliwe, ukhungathekile.
UWinston Churchill wake wathi:
"Impumelelo iqukethe ukusuka ekuhlulekeni kuye ekuhlulekeni ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umdlandla."
Namuhla ngifuna ukukhumbula ukuthi kungani noma ngabe uzizwa ungaphumeleli, wenza iphutha. Ngikushiya nalezi zimpawu eziyi-9 ezibonisa ukuthi wenza kahle empilweni noma ungakukholwa:
1) Unombhede onethezekile ongalala kuwo nokuthile ongakufaka emlonyeni wakho.
Emazweni amaningi izingane ezincane zibuza omama bazo ukuthi bazodla nini noma kungani bengayi esikoleni futhi kudingeka bahambe amakhilomitha ayi-10 ngosuku ukuthola amanzi okuphuza. Lezi zingane azinawo ngisho umbhede.
2) Uzabalazela ukuba ngcono.
Iqiniso lokuthi uzizwa udabukile ukuthi awukazuzi okufunayo likhombisa ukuthi uzama ukukwenza kahle. Isihluthulelo akukhona ukuwohloka bese uqhubeka uzama. Thatha imizuzu embalwa uhlaziye izimbangela "zokwehluleka" kwakho bese ucabanga ukuthi ungathuthukisa kanjani ngokuzayo lapho uzama.
Gxila ezixazululweni hhayi ezinkingeni. Empeleni, susa igama "inkinga" yamagama wakho. Faka esikhundleni segama "inselelo".
U-Einstein wake wathi:
"Akukhona ukuthi ngihlakaniphe kangako, ukuthi nje ngihlala nezinkinga isikhathi eside."
Hlala lapho ulwe ukuze ube yinguqulo yakho engcono kakhulu.
Kukhona ukwehluleka kuphela lapho uphonsa ithawula. pic.twitter.com/SSs9V6IPNy
- Izinsiza (@RecursoAyuda) Okthoba 22, 2015
3) Unomsebenzi noma ubenomsebenzi.
Noma ngabe ubheka kanjani, zombili izinketho zilungile. Uma usuvele unomsebenzi, siyakuhalalisela ... yize uqinisekisa ukuthi ukhululekile ngawo ngoba uma kungenjalo besizobhekana nenye inselelo 😉 Uma usanda kulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi, bheka ohlangothini oluqhakazile lwesimo sakho esisha. Unesikhathi esithe xaxa sakho, sokuhlangana nabantu abasha, izindawo ezintsha, ukunikela isikhathi esithe xaxa kokuzilibazisa kwakho. Ngibheja ukuthi akekho umuntu olambile lapho uhlala khona. Lokhu akusho ukuthi uthatha isimo sokunganyakazi esimweni sakho esisha. Qhubeka ubheke umsebenzi omusha, setha isheduli bese uya ezindaweni lapho ungathanda ukusebenza khona. Ungabhalisela inkambo yokukuqeqeshela umsebenzi owuthanda kakhulu. Umhlaba wamathuba uvuleka ezinyaweni zakho. Lungisa izimali zakho ziye esimeni sakho esisha (khumbula ukucaphuna kukaJosé Múgica engikubeke ngaphezulu).
Posted by UKUKHULA KOMUNTU on ULwesihlanu, Okthoba 9, 2015
4) Ulwazi kutholakale kalula.
Akukaze nanini ngaphambili sibe nokuthola amathuba amaningi kangaka okuba ngongoti kokuthile. Kuthatha kuphela amahora we-10.000 wokutadisha nokuzilolonga entweni eyodwa ukuze ube yingcweti kukho.
Uma ufuna ukufunda ukudlala isigingci, ukuba nguchwepheshe ku-Photoshop, ukuba ngumphathi wewebhusayithi ophumelelayo noma yini enye oqonde ukuyenza, Udinga kuphela amahora ayi-10.000 XNUMX futhi uzokwenza umehluko omkhulu empilweni yakho maqondana nalokho okufundile.
I-Intanethi, imitapo yolwazi yomphakathi, izitolo ezidayisa izincwadi, izingqungquthela, izifundo ... Akukaze ngaphambili sibe nokufinyelela okungaka kulwazi.
Sebenzisa leli thuba elihle.
- Izinsiza (@RecursoAyuda) Okthoba 22, 2015
5) Unamandla wokukhetha. U-Aristotle wake wathi:
Ukuvelela akukaze kube yingozi. Kuhlale kungumphumela wenhloso enkulu, umzamo oqotho, nokubulawa kobuhlakani. Ukukhethwa, hhayi ithuba, kunquma ikusasa lakho.
Unamandla wokukhetha ukuba nokuphila okususelwa kokwenza kahle kungakhathalekile ukuthi ubhekene nani endleleni. Ungahlala ukhetha ukuhamba ngendlela engafanele noma uhambe ngendlela efanele. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuhamba ngendlela efanele akulula. Kuthatha ukuzimisela okukhulu nokubekezela.
Posted by UKUKHULA KOMUNTU ngoLwesine, Okthoba 22, 2015
6) Unephupho.
Bonke abantu banephupho kulokhu kuphila. Kungani ungazinikeli nsuku zonke ukuthatha igxathu elincane elikusondeza kulelo phupho? Zicabange unenhlanhla yokuba nephupho ongaliphilela ulilwele.
Ungalindeli ukuthi impilo izodlula futhi awukazami ukufeza elinye lamaphupho akho.
- Izinsiza (@RecursoAyuda) Okthoba 22, 2015
7) Unamandla okujabula ngoba kuyinto encike kuwe.
Nginezindaba ezinhle engingakunika zona. Injabulo ivela ngaphakathi kuwe, hhayi ngaphandle. Noma ingcebo ayinakukunika amandla okujabula impilo yakho yonke, futhi ukuphuka kwenhliziyo akunamandla okwenza ungajabuli. Injabulo ivela ekuthuleni kwengqondo, ekubeni muhle kuwe. Ukuzindla ingakusiza uthole lokhu kuthula. 
8) Unekhono lokuxolela.
Ungacabanga ukuthi ngabe umhlaba ubunjani ukube akukho ukuxolelwa? Ukuthethelela umuntu okuonile kunzima kodwa ngasikhathi sinye kukhululeka ngokweqile. Izindaba ezimnandi ukuthi sonke sinesipho sokuthethelela.
pic.twitter.com/B6qxSBTI8p - Izinsiza (@RecursoAyuda) Okthoba 22, 2015
9) Unethuba lokwakha ubungani bomhlaba wonke.
Ngenxa yentuthuko yezobuchwepheshe, ungenza abangane noma kuphi emhlabeni. Ungaxhumana nabantu abanezintshisakalo ezifanayo futhi wakhe ubungane obuhlala njalo futhi obuqotho.
Uma ngabe uyithandile le ndatshana, cabanga ukuyaba nalabo osondelene nabo. Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokungeseka.[i-mashshare]
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I-athikili enhle, izinsiza ezinenani elikhulu.