Zibuze lo mbuzo: Uma kungenjalo manje, nini? Kuyadingeka ukuthi unqatshelwe empilweni yakho ukulinda izinto zenzeke kuwe ... ngoba ngeke zenzeke kuwe! Kumele ubaphumelele, ulwele lokho ofuna ukukufeza, udale uhlelo lokusebenza ukuze amaphupho akho ayeke ukuba ngokoqobo!
Eqinisweni, sonke sinamaphupho nezinhloso ezinkulu, kepha kwesinye isikhathi, senza izinto esingathandi ukuzenza ukufinyelela ezindaweni esifuna ukuba kuzo. Kungenzeka ukuthi kwezinye izinsuku uvuke ungafuni lutho noma wenze izinto ongazithandi ... Kepha ezikhathini eziningi lokhu kuyadingeka ukuze ukwazi ukuphumelela, futhi kufanele kujatshulelwe endleleni!
Awuhlali wenza lokho okuthandayo noma ozizwa uthanda ukukwenza
Sisesemphakathini lapho kucatshangwa ukuthi i-100% lesikhathi umuntu kufanele enze izinto azithandayo noma afuna ukujabula ngazo, kodwa lutho lokho! Isigamu sesikhathi kufanele wenze izinto ongazifuni noma ongazithandi kakhulu ukuze ufeze izinhloso zakho. Ngeke uhlale ufuna ukuziqeqesha kepha ufuna ukuba umsubathi omuhle noma ube nomzimba omuhle, ngeke ufune ukupenda njalo, kepha ufuna ukuba umdwebi omuhle ... Ukubekezela, umzamo kanye nokuziphatha kuyizihluthulelo zempumelelo!
Uma ungaziphoqi ukwenza izinto, akekho omunye ozokwenza. Akufanele uvumele ubuvila buphazamise amaphupho akho futhi uthole lokho okukufanele. Kuzoba nezinsuku ezingcono nezinsuku ezimbi kakhulu, kepha leyo yingxenye yempumelelo, leyo yingxenye yokwenza izinto. Ongakwazi ukukukhokhela ukuthi lapho ikusasa lifika, uzozisola ngokungakwenzi obekufisa njalo. Ungacabanga ukuthi usembhedeni wakho wokufa futhi uyazisola ngazo zonke izinto ongazenzanga? UNGAKUVUMELI lokho kwenzeke kuwe.
Gxila emicabangweni yakho
Ukuze ufeze amaphupho akho, kufanele ucacise ukuthi ayini bese ulwela ukuwafeza! Azitholakali ngobusuku obubodwa, Kungathatha izinyanga noma ngisho neminyaka, kepha kufanelekile ukugxila enjongweni yokukufeza futhi ugxile empilweni yakho ekuthuthukiseni kancane kancane kuleyo ndawo, noma ngabe ungabanaki abanye.
Usuku ngalunye luzoba yimpi ehlukile, ngoba akuyona yonke into ecwebezelayo ehlala igolide. Impilo ayinakulindeleka, futhi yindlela okhetha ukwenza ngayo ngezinsuku ezinzima kunazo zonke nalapho inqubekela phambili yakho ichazwa khona kakhulu ... Ngokuya ngokuthi weqa kanjani izithiyo, ungafinyelela izinto ezinkulu. Ubunzima ukuvivinya amandla akho okuvela futhi unqobe impi yobuvila.
Ukulandela amaphupho akho akuyona indlela ekhuthazayo ngaso sonke isikhathi
Kukhona ukuthambekela okukhulayo kokukholelwa ukuthi ugqozi kufanele luhlale lukhona njalo, Eqinisweni, ukugqugquzela kungancipha ngezikhathi ezithile, kepha kudinga ukuzimisela ukukwenza uphinde unyuke futhi. Uma ulandela okufunayo, impilo yakho izoshintsha. Uma ukhetha ukusebenza kulokho okuthandayo ngempela, ngeke uphinde usebenze empilweni yakho! Ngoba ngeke uzizwe ukuthi lokhu okwenzayo kuyisibopho, uma kungenjalo kuyisibusiso!
Ukuphikelela, ukuqina kanye nesifiso sokufeza izinhloso zakho kumele ngaso sonke isikhathi sikuphelezele. Kuzofanele usebenze kanzima ukukufeza, kepha kuphela okulukhuni yilokho okukufanele ngempela! Okulula, imvamisa ... akulungile noma akukufanele. Ukuba ngumuntu osebenza kanzima, ophikelelayo nonentshisekelo yinto okumele uyikhethe. Gxila entuthukweni yakho, imigomo yakho, onakho manje nokuthi yini ofuna ukuyifinyelela ... kokubili ngokuzikhethela nangokudingeka.
Ngabe uhlose ukuyaphi?
Ayikho indlela elula uma kukhulunywa ngokujaha iphupho elikhulu. Nsuku zonke kuzoba ngumshikashika futhi kuzofanele uhlale uthuthuka nsuku zonke. Ushintsho emqondweni wakho lungakusiza ukuthi wenze izinto noma uhlehliselwe emuva endleleni ongayifuni nhlobo. Ungasuka kumqondo wokuwina uye engqondweni elahlekile. Y ungaqhubeka kalula unikezele emzabalazweni, ebunzimeni nasezinsizini, futhi vumela yonke into ihlulwe futhi ifinyelele kuwe ngendlela embi ... Kepha akusenjalo! Impilo yindlela okhetha ukuphila ngayo ... futhi ube ngumuntu ofuna ukuba yikho ngempela. Lokho kungukukhetha kwakho futhi kusebenza njengesikhuthazo kwabanye abantu, ngisho nasezinganeni zakho uma unazo.
Kuzoba nezinsuku lapho uthuthuka kakhulu futhi ezinye uthuthuke kancane, kepha ngokujwayelekile, uma uke wahluleka, khumbula ukuthi kungani uqale endleleni yokufeza amaphupho akho. Ngale ndlela uzobona ukuthi ungakuthola nokuthi kungani ufuna ukukufeza! Lokhu kuzokukhuthaza ukuthi uqhubekele phambili ungalahli konke osukuzuzile.
Khumbula ukuthi kuyinto ejwayelekile ukwenza amaphutha, ukwenza amaphutha bese wehluleka, kepha ungavumeli lawa maphutha akwehlise ... Ngoba kumele ngabe bangothisha bakho! Yize okwenzayo kungeke kube lula ngaso sonke isikhathi, khumbula ukuthi kuyinto engokoqobo kuwe, ukuthi uyayakha ... uzenzela amaphupho akho futhi ungawathola, ungadikibali!
Ukhetha kanjani ukuphila impilo yakho?
Kukhona ibinzana elivela ku-Alice Walker elingakwenza ucabange: 'Indlela ejwayeleke kakhulu yokuthi abantu banikele ngamandla abo ngokucabanga ukuthi abanayo.' Awukwazi ukulinda ukuxosha amaphupho akho. Cha, kufanele ubalandele ngenqindi yensimbi uma ufuna ukuzibona zigcwaliseka empilweni yakho. Kufanele uzimisele futhi ube nobugovu ukuze ubone amaphupho akho empilweni yakho. Ngokwenza njalo, ubanikeza ithuba lokuthi bachume futhi bakhule.
Impilo yenzelwe ukuthi uyiphile, ngoba unayo futhi kufanele ikufanele. Impilo yakho akumele ifane neyabanye abantu, kufanele uzizwe kamnandi ngenkathi uyiphila. Awudingi ukujikeleza umhlaba wonke ukuze ujabule noma ufeze izinhloso zakho, izinhloso zakho zingaba lula ... Yikho nje okwenza uzizwe kamnandi namuhla. Amaphupho akho akulindile futhi akufanele uwavumele adlule kuwe.
Ungadeli amandla akho, ngoba impilo yakho kumele ikhethe ukuthi uzophila ngayo. Ufanele ubukhulu ongabuzuza. Uma ufuna ukuphila impilo yakho kangcono, kufanele ukhethe, kufanele uthathe izinqumo, kufanele wenze okwenza uzizwe kamnandi ... noma ngabe kunezithiyo endleleni noma awunazo njalo isisusa kwanele ukuqhubeka. Kepha uma ufuna ukuphila impilo yakho enhle kakhulu, kufanele ukhethe. Kufanele ubheje ngesimangalo sakho. Kufanele ukhethe izimpi zakho futhi udlale amakhadi akho kahle lapho udinga.
Chaza iphupho ofuna ukulifeza bese ulifezela ngaphandle kwanoma yini ekuvimba! Akukaze kwephuze kakhulu ukwenza okulungile futhi ulalele inhliziyo yakho ukuze ikulandele ngawo wonke amandla akho. Khombisa umhlaba futhi ikakhulukazi wena, lokho okwazi ukukuzuza ngokubekezela, ukuyala nokuzimisela.