Imibono eyi-10 yokwengeza ugqozi lwakho nokufeza impumelelo

Kulesi sihloko uzothola izindlela eziyi-10 zokuzikhuthaza futhi ufeze lokho kuzikhuza okudingekayo ukufeza izinhloso zakho kepha ngaphambi kokungena esihlokweni ngithanda ukuthi ubone lokhu ividiyo yomunye wabasebenzisi be-YouTube abaphumelele kakhulu ngolimi lwaseSpain nalapho asitshela khona ngendlela eya empumelelweni.

ILuzu isenza sicabange ngokuthi kungani abanye abantu bezuze impumelelo enkulu empilweni. Ifomula yakhe yokuphumelela ifaka uthando, ithalente nomzamo:

UNGATHANDA UKUTHOLA «Ithiyori Yokugqugquzela Ebaluleke Kakhulu«

Uzwile kangaki izwi isisusa y uzizwe kangaki?

Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi, kaningi, umlahlekele. Mhlawumbe lapho wawudinga ukuthi ngikuboleke isandla ukuze ubhekane nenqwaba yezinto okwakufanele uzenze, lapho ehamba "ngaphandle kwesixwayiso" futhi ekushiya ungenamandla noma isifiso, noma lapho ubungazizwa nje isikhashana futhi ngifuna ukuqala okuthile ngomdlandla nangamandla.

Este inqubo yezengqondo, okubizwa ngokugqugquzela, kusishayela ukufeza umgomo nokugcina isimilo esithile sikufinyelele. Kufana ne- inhlansi yangaphakathi ebeka ukushukuma kwethu. Kusinika amandla okufuna nokusebenzisa izinsizakusebenza esizidingayo, size sifeze lokho ebesizimisele ukukwenza.

Ungahlala kanjani ukhuthazekile?

Ukugqugquzela nokuziphatha kuvame ukuhambisana njengoba ngaphandle kwesisusa cishe akunakwenzeka ukuqondiswa ubugwegwe.

Ukuyala kuyintando nokuzibophezela ekwenzeni okudinga ukwenziwa. Ngaphandle kwesiyalo impilo yethu ibingaba sesimeni sokuxokozela. Cabanga ngezinto ozenza nsuku zonke noma masonto onke nokuthi udinga ukugcina impilo yakho ngokufanele: ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlini, inhlanzeko yomuntu siqu, ukukhokha izikweletu, ukulala ... Ngaphandle kwazo zonke lezi zinto, impilo yakho ibizobukeka kanjani?

Uma ungenayo ukuzilimaza impilo yakho ingaba yinkinga enkulu. Imikhuba emibi egxilile nomqondo ongalawuleki kungakuvimbela ekufezeni amaphupho akho. Ngaphandle kohlobo oluthile lokugqugquzela kwangaphakathi noma kwangaphandle, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uhlakulele isiyalo osidingayo.

Imibono eyi-10 yokukhuthazeka kakhulu

1) Yazi inkhulumomphendvulwano yakho yangaphakathi.

Lalela lokho okushoyo kuwe funa ukuthi uvuke uze uyolala. Imiyalezo esizithumelela yona ingakwazi kusenze sizizwe sinekhono ukufeza lokho esikuphakamisayo noma ukucekela phansi zonke izinhlelo zethu. Ukukhuphuka kokuzethemba, ukuphepha, kanye nokwenza ngcono imizwa kungafinyelelwa ngokuthi ukhulume kahle. Wake waluqala usuku lwakho uzitshela ukuthi ungakanani? Ubufakazi.

2) Cabanga ngokuthi ngabe lokho ohlele ukukwenza, uyafuna ngempela ukukwenza.

Lapho singakhetha umgomo esizowufinyelela, kungakuhle ukuthi siyeke ukucabanga ukuthi ngabe leyo njongo siyikhethe ngoba sifuna noma ngoba abanye befuna. Kwesinye isikhathi sithatha imisebenzi esicabanga ukuthi ingeyethu kanti empeleni ivela emvelweni: "Kufanele", "kufanele", "wenze okulula kakhulu" ... Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, siyabona ukuthi besiziphoqa ukuthi senze okuthile esingasenayo intshisekelo yokwenza.

Uma ungazange ukhethe umgomo kepha "kufanele" uwufinyelele, kungcono ukwazi isimo sengqondo onaso maqondana nawo. Isimo sengqondo esingalungile singafana nokunyathela ibhuleki ne-namafutha ngasikhathi sinye… futhi ngiphuthume ukufika lapho.

3) Chaza umgomo bese uwahlukanisa ube izinhloso ezincane.

Kubalulekile ukuthi lokho okuphakamisayo kube enengqondo futhi engafinyeleleka. Kuyasiza kakhulu ukubhala umgomo ku- icacile futhi inembile ukuze, kamuva, setha imisebenzi (izinhloso) ezikusondeza kuyo.

Hlukanisa umgomo ngezinyathelo ezincane bese ugxila kuwo usuku ngalunye. Khumbula ukuthi uma ungaziphothuli izinyathelo ozenzile, ngeke uhlangabezane nenhloso yakho.

4) Sukuma, ungalindi.

Uma wazi ukuthi ufuna ukufeza ini nokuthi yini okufanele ukwenzele khona ...isenzo. Noma kunezinsuku ongenawo amandla amaningi nesikhuthazo, qhubeka. Bheka ukuthi yini oyihambile hhayi kuphela lokho okusamele uhambe. Ungaqala usuku ngokungabizi kakhulu, noma wehlukanise imisebenzi ibe mincane. Yebo kunjalo, zibophezele ekuziqedeleni.

5) Ukwenza iphutha noma ukuwela kunoma yiziphi izithiyo AKUKHO ukwehluleka.

Ukucabanga ukuthi yonke into kufanele iphelele futhi ayikho indawo yephutha, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukukhubeka kokuqala endleleni yakho. Uma okuthile kungahambi kahle, noma njengoba ubulindele, ungacabanga ukuthi konke kuyesabeka noma funda ephutheni ukuyilungisa bese uqhubeka. Asibona imishini, kepha abantu, namaphutha nokwehluleka kusikhombisa indlela okungafanele siyithathe ukuze sithathe engcono.

6) Zihalalisele ngempumelelo oyifinyelelayo.

Kubonakala sengathi sinomkhuba wokuzijezisa uma senza okuthile "okungalungile" futhi sikushaya indiva konke esikwenzayo "okulungile" futhi esikufezayo. Bungaza imigomo oyishiya ngemuva futhi uziphathe, ngezikhathi ezithile, kufane nokuthanda kwakho umklomelo. Ngiyakuqinisekisa ukuthi kuzwakala kukuhle kakhulu.

7) Gxila ezinzuzweni.

Cabanga imizuzu embalwa ngomsebenzi ngamunye owenzayo ngenzuzo oyothola. Ukuba nohlobo oluthile lomvuzo engqondweni kubalulekile ekutholeni nasekuhlaleni ugqozi.

8) Sebenzisa ukubona ngeso.

Cabanga ngesikrini esikhulu sebhayisikobho lapho bephrojusa khona ibhayisikobho lapho ungumuntu oyinhloko khona. Kwi-movie usuvele ulifezile iphupho lakho futhi uyasithanda esihlalweni sakho sengalo ukuthi uzizwa ujabule kangakanani nezinzuzo ezikulethela zona. Dala i-movie ngokuningiliziwe.

9) Thola ugqozi.

Funda izincwadi ezikhuthazayo zezingcweti ezinkulu futhi ubuke ama-movie akhuthazayo. Zama ukuxhumana nalabo bantu ababelana ngezinhloso zakho noma asebevele bazifezile.

I-10) Nsuku zonke buyekeza ugqozi lwakho nezinhloso zakho.

Kungakuhle uma uqala iphephabhuku bese ubhala phansi konke okuphathelene nomgomo wakho. Qopha amathemba akho, amaphupho akho, ukungabaza kwakho, nokunqoba kwakho.

Esinye sezici zempumelelo ukuzikhuza. Khumbula ukuthi ukuzikhuza ngaphandle kwesisusa kunzima kakhulu.

Impumelelo ayiwona umphumela wokushisa okuzenzekelayo. Kufanele uvule kuqala. "

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I-athikili ebhalwe nguNuria Álvarez