Life is a winding road, difficult, even more so if we dedicate ourselves to being silly. Choosing the attitudes that will govern our life is fundamental.
I leave you these 12 commandments that are essential if you want to live a life that is worthwhile and that brings you infinite satisfaction:
1) Let go of the past.
What done is done. Remember that tragedies are rarely as bad as they seem, and even when they are, they give us the opportunity to grow stronger.
Every difficult moment in our life is accompanied by an opportunity to personal growth. But to achieve this growth, the first thing you must learn is to let go of the past.
2) Identify the lesson.
All life is a great lesson.
Never forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don't go your way. If you don't get a job you want, or a relationship doesn't work out, it just means that there is something else out there waiting for you. There are other options that open endless new doors for you.
3) Lose the negative attitude.
Negative thinking generates negative results. Positive thinking generates positive results. It's that simple.
Each of the suggestions in this article is irrelevant if your mind is stuck in the gutter. Positive thinking is linked to the success of many people. In this regard, I recommend this audiobook: Good luck.
4) Accept responsibility for your current situation.
Only you are responsible for your life. Everything that happens to you is determined by your actions and decisions. It is up to you to take control of them and guide your life on the right path, being congruent with your thoughts.
It is not easy because you will come across numerous obstacles but let me tell you that without those obstacles life would be very boring, they give you the opportunity to overcome them. Take it as a challenge and you will see how life rewards your effort.
5) Focus on the things you can change.
There are things that are beyond our control, thank God because otherwise we would be responsible for everything that happens around us. Relax with those things that are beyond your control and focus on those that you can control.
Use your talent and your emotional energy to keep growing. You have many years ahead of you, if you make an effort every day your life will be easier.
6) Find out what you really want.
Identify your passion, something that makes you grow and focus on it. Try to be the best at something.
We all have an innate talent for something, find out, it may take you years to discover it but you will recognize it when you are faced with it.
7) Identify what really matters in life.
In this life there is a lot of trash, things that are not worth losing a second. Instead there are other essential aspects such as family, friends and even your job. These aspects are an opportunity to grow.
8) Focus your attention.
Sometimes our mind is abuzz with ruminant thoughts that paralyze us. You need to learn to relax your mind and focus your attention on only one thing. When you're doing dishes, focus on it… you'll start to enjoy even the most unpleasant tasks.
9) Be active.
Only the dead are inactive. Do not become an undead, fight against it, do things, exercise, meet friends, read ... whatever comes to mind, but do something (less watch television, unless it is something that brings you something good) .
10) Maintain a routine.
It may sound boring but it is the only way to achieve great things: by being disciplined.
11) Maintain self-control.
This advice is closely related to number 8: focus your attention. If we are aware of everything we do, we will have our mind and actions under control. Leave something for improvisation too but never lose control.
12) Forget about impressing people.
Your life is only yours and your actions are only freely decided by you, they have to be free from ties such as impressing others.
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