8 habits to improve your life [the 31 day challenge]

I propose a game to you.

I am going to expose seven habits that can make your life change for the better remarkably. However, carrying out the seven habits may be too difficult at first so I propose that you choose one of these seven habits and work on it for the next 31 days.

I'm going to give you some preliminary considerations before exposing these seven habits to change your life for the better.

PRELIMINARY CONSIDERATIONS

1) The process to change your life is not going to be easy.

These seven habits will make your life significantly better. However, you don't want to do it all at once. Have a plan of action, that is, take, for example, tip number one and make it a habit to make it a habit for the next 31 days.

In each council I will propose a method of action, I'm going to show you how to get it.

2) You need to be committed.

If you have reached this article it is because you want your life to be better. You need to commit to that change so You can leave the following comment at the end of this article:

"Hello, my name is 'your name' and for the next 31 days I will take advice number (choose the advice that is easiest for you)".

During the next 31 days you will be posting comments about how you are doing with such advice. If you finally stop commenting, we will have understood that you have abandoned your commitment to change your life for the better.

3) You need to be disciplined.

Changing your life for the better entails banishing bad habits and incorporating new habits, and this requires discipline, and to be disciplined you need motivation.

You will find that motivation in the feedback that we are going to give you in your comments.

7 habits that will make your life better:

1) You are going to start exercising.

Choose what type of exercise are you going to do for the next 31 days: walking two hours a day, running for an hour three times a week, swimming for an hour three times a week, ...

You need to establish a specific exercise, establish how much time you are going to dedicate each week, what days you are going to do it and what time you are going to do it. As you see, you need to be very specific in your action plan.

If you choose to follow this habit, leave me your comment with these data that I just told you.

2) Two days a week, you are going to meet someone with whom you feel comfortable.

If you choose to carry out this habit, leave me your comment saying what days of the week you have chosen to meet, at what time, what you are going to do and who you are going to meet. Example: Monday at 10:00 AM I have a meeting with my best friend for a walk and on Thursday at 11:30 AM I have a meeting with a coworker for coffee.

3) You are going to find a space in your day to day to read for at least 45 minutes.

If you choose to carry out this habit, you are going to leave me a comment type "Every day from 22:30 pm to 23:15 pm I am going to read the following book: 'Title of the book'".

At this point you may be interested in this article «The 22 Best Self-Help and Self-Improvement Books«.

4) You are going to have the following sleep habit.

For the next 31 days, you will try to sleep at least 7 hours and you will not go to bed later than 00:00.

This habit is linked to the first habit that I have proposed, that is, if you choose to carry out this habit, you will have to do the first habit, and vice versa, If you choose the first habit, you will have to do this habit number four.

This is because to sleep properly you have to be tired.

Maybe you are interested:

«TOP 8 tips on how to sleep well without pills»

The Guide You Need To Sleep Better [and improve your quality of life].

As well I recommend you take a supplement of melatonin, a natural substance that our brain secretes and that is responsible for regulating our natural sleep cycle.

From the age of 40 our brain begins to secrete less melatonin and it is advisable to take it as a supplement. If you want more information about it, Leave me your comment and I will gladly guide you in this regard.

5) You are going to start eating better.

You are going to incorporate new much healthier eating habits. During the next 31 days you will add more fish, more vegetables, more legumes, less junk food and less pastries to your menu.

You are going to do a weekly planning with lunch and dinner. Choose dishes that you know how to make and keep in mind that you will need a certain time to buy the ingredients and prepare each dish, so remember to leave a space in your schedule to cook.

If you don't have too much time you can take advantage of the weekend to make some lentils, chickpeas, or whatever and then, in tapers, you can freeze it to take it out during the week.

Then I leave you a healthy and balanced meal planning (corresponds to the month of November). This planning belongs to the company that is in charge of feeding my children at school. It can give you some ideas:

dining menu

If you choose to choose this habit, I advise you to leave your comment sharing your lunch and dinner planning and your progress. This will help you get involved.

6) You will stop criticizing and complaining for the next 31 days.

This habit is not as easy as it may seem. If you go for this habit, it doesn't take a lot of planning. You just have to keep a record of the times you have succumbed to a complaint or criticism. For this registration I invite you to use the comment system below.

If you suddenly find yourself in a conversation where someone is being criticized, go away. Make up an excuse, say you go to the bathroom, or say you need to make a call.

Eliminating complaints and criticism from your life will make you be a much more positive person.

7) You are going to meditate every day for 15 minutes.

You are going to choose a time of day and you are going to meditate for 15 minutes. Of course, if you choose to do this challenge, think about it (or write it better) at what time of day are you going to meditate.

After meditating, leave me your comment explaining your feelings or what problem you have focused on to see it with another perspective.

A consideration before meditating: don't choose a time of day when you can fall asleep. If you do it after eating or at night, you may fall asleep.

I recommend these articles:

An example of meditation

8 Relaxation Exercises and Techniques (to live quietly)

Basic principles for meditation

8) Carry out a volunteer activity.

First you need to find a list of volunteer activities that are carried out in the locality where you reside. You will make up this list by doing a Google search.

You can find these activities by searching like "Volunteering [write the name of your community or town]". Among the results that Google will give you, you will surely be able to make a good list and choose the activity that best suits your needs, interests and availability.

Surely there are many volunteer activities close to where you live: helping disabled people, accompanying the elderly, collaborating with organizations that help the most needy (collecting food, distributing it, educating children in distress or who come from poor families or unstructured, ...), protective of animals, accompaniment of hospitalized children, ...

Once you have chosen which association you can collaborate with, establish what days and at what time you are going to go. Leave me a comment with this data and commit to this goal.

Incorporating this habit into your life will make your life improve remarkably because When we feel useful helping others, our rates of emotional well-being increase.

Well, this list is up to here.

Now it's up to you to start taking the actions that will make your life better. Choose one of these habits and leave me your comment.


Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked with *

  1. Responsible for the data: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Purpose of the data: Control SPAM, comment management.
  3. Legitimation: Your consent
  4. Communication of the data: The data will not be communicated to third parties except by legal obligation.
  5. Data storage: Database hosted by Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Rights: At any time you can limit, recover and delete your information.

  1.   sonia said

    I start my challenge!

  2.   Dori said

    I start my challenge with the number 7.
    Every day at 07:30 in the morning.

    1.    Daniel said

      Good Dori. Did you get up today at 7:30 AM?

  3.   Javier said

    I am a very negative person who is always thinking that everything is going to go wrong. I start my challenge with habit number 6

    1.    Daniel said

      It seems perfect. This challenge works great for people who tend to be negative. You'll tell us how you're doing.

  4.   Esteban said

    I start my challenge with habit 1,3 and 5.

    1.    Daniel said

      Your challenge is very ambitious. You will tell us how you are doing.

  5.   Marco Villanueva said

    Wow, excellent article. The imperative way of writing challenges you and leads you to change. I'm in. I'll be going to leave the comments. By the way, your article will be cited in today's daily readings on my website. Thank you

    1.    Daniel said

      Thank you very much for your comment Marco. I am very motivated by these types of comments and make me want to continue with these types of articles. Thank you very much 🙂

  6.   Rodri said

    I am an excessively negative person, I worry a lot about everything and I complain and regret very often.
    Although I work to improve it, it is a vice.
    I want to do this challenge and comment on it to feel supported in something that for me is almost impossible.

    1.    Daniel said

      Well, a lot of encouragement Rodri but as you will see, it is not easy. None of those who read the article here at the time and commented, has commented again. Could it be that they continue with their objectives or have their purposes been blurred?

  7.   Andrea said

    Beautiful challenge, I feel motivated by the proposal and I propose to meditate from Monday to Friday at 8.30 am. I will also incorporate the habit of non-criticism.
    We will advance in search of harmony and well-being.
    Thank you

    1.    Daniel said

      Hello Andrea, congratulations on your decision. If you can remember to stop by to tell us how you are doing with meditation.

      Luck.

      1.    Andrea said

        Hi Daniel, it's been a long time since my challenge ever started. Today I realize all the challenges that I have forgotten.
        The best thing is that I can still move forward.
        I will comment on the results.
        See you soon

  8.   Lilia romo said

    I start my challenge with number 1, every day at 6 am

  9.   Maria Fernanda said

    Hello, my name is Maria Fernanda and from today I start challenge number 6 since I complain about everything and I am very negative

  10.   lesbian said

    Hello
    I'll start with habit 1.
    I will exercise at least twice a week. I will do Zumba Monday and Thursday, one hour each day.

    regards

  11.   David said

    David Cordero: I begin my challenge ,,, reading the book: Unwavering Principles of Success by Jeff Keller, this every day from 4:00 to 4:45 pm

  12.   Cecilia said

    Hello: I want to do challenge 6, because I feel that sometimes I am very negative. start tomorrow

  13.   Diana said

    Every day from 9:00 to 9:45 I am going to read the following book: 'let me tell you about it' ”.

  14.   Michelle said

    Hello!! I'm going to do challenges 1 (I'm going to walk for 30 min. and do a plank for 3 min. every day) and 4…

  15.   rousie said

    I will start with changing the bad habit of criticizing someone and complaining about everything

  16.   Aurelius said

    Hello. I will start with Challenge # 1 it would be 2 times a week (Tuesday and Thursday) from 8:00 to 9:00 pm
    Followed by # 3 Really if I read a lot and # 4 goes hand in hand with challenge # 1 then I take it as one. Very important; Challenge # 6 Let go of criticism and so much quiet and end with challenge # 7 would be Meditate Every DAY in the morning.

    I hope to meet all the challenges that I have proposed. Please be aware of my comments, I want to improve my life. Happy afternoon 🙂

  17.   Aurelius said

    I'm curious about Melatonin. How can it be taken?

  18.   Daniela said

    I'll start habit # 1. I will run on Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays at 6am

  19.   BLUE said

    Hi, I'm Azul. For 8 days I have been doing advice No. 1. I am commenting now to give myself strength and not give up. I do a little yoga every day for 10 minutes, the idea is to increase the amount of time but I want to enjoy the process. I will arrive at 31 days! I like to comment to feel committed to you.

  20.   BLUE said

    Today I did 15 minutes and it really feels in the body, although it seems very little, and it is a very safe way of knowing that the next day I am going to do it again, super motivated instead of the next day it hurts everything or I don't want to go back to pass the same martyrdom. So I recommend it.

  21.   BLUE said

    Day 10. It gets easier and easier and makes me want to keep exercising. I will comment again in 3 or 5 days.

    1.    maria jose roldan said

      great blue !! 🙂

  22.   BLUE said

    Thanks, Maria Jose! Today is the 13th, I got excited and did 25 minutes. I think that what helps me not to miss a single day (for now) is to keep the record in a notebook. It's weird because I hated working out and lately I'm really looking forward to doing it. Let's see how it continues !! I will comment again in another three days

    1.    maria jose roldan said

      Well, it'll be great for sure 🙂 Writing down in a notebook is an excellent idea because that way you can see all your progress. Keep it up! 🙂

  23.   BLUE said

    Iuju! If you say! I couldn't connect before. Day 18. Today I did 35 minutes because I enjoyed it a lot, but yesterday less than 20 because I was without much energy. If I got sick, I would do something to keep track of it (you always have to have a plan b). A hug and thanks for the follow-up

    1.    maria jose roldan said

      cool!! I love your attitude !! ^^

  24.   BLUE said

    Day 20. I have read that to improve flexibility it is best to leave a day of rest in the week, it will be Sunday. Saluting the sun is a beautiful practice. I love to reach the state of meditation and the salutation to the sun is that, purely. I'm going to start doing one, even if it's just waking up, even on the rest day. It is a very nice way to wake up. Thank you very much for the note, it has brought me an unimaginable well-being to start the practice.

    1.    maria jose roldan said

      Cool 😀

  25.   BLUE said

    Day 25. I'm pretty close to finishing the challenge. I have some goals when it comes to exercise and I have become almost addicted to this healthy habit. It is very nice to feel that I can be constant, which is something that I always felt very far from myself. These days I have been doing around 50 minutes and at other times (like when I watch TV) I find myself stretching very happily. It has changed a lot of aspects of my life positively, it improves my days, my self-esteem and I am happier. Probably shortly (when they have finished establishing some habits that I am working on) add the daily practice of some meditation technique as recommended by the article. Greetings!

    1.    maria jose roldan said

      Cool! you are an example to follow! 😀

  26.   BLUE said

    Oh! Thanks for the support! Day 31! Thanks for the note, again! I'm going to keep the streak going ... Hugs