Reinvent yourself: transform the way you are without ceasing to be who you are

To talk about this topic we are going to transcribe the words of mario alonso puig:

«It is necessary to clarify what is meant by reinventing oneself. There are people who believe that reinventing yourself is about becoming a totally different person. It is not like this. Reinventing yourself means transforming your way of being without ceasing to be who you are. Transform yourself into someone who knows what you want and what you don't want.

The problem is that there is an element that we all have to fight with and that is inertia, laziness, fear of the unknown ... This makes many of us settle for surviving and we accept mediocrity, when mediocrity is not a natural state of the human being. It is a state chosen for not daring enough in life. When a person feels that he has been doing something that does not excite him for a long time, he is losing an innate vital energy.

We must not forget what the Swiss-born thanatologist and psychiatrist said Elisabeth kübler-ross, the person who knew the most about death on a scientific level. She said that one of the things that most caught her attention was that, when she accompanied people in their process of death, they said to her: "I would have liked to be more daring in life."

I believe that when a person feels inspiration for something in life, they should not turn it off, they should let that inspiration begin to move them. I know it's very scary but, from my point of view, It can fully transform your life.« More information in his book Now I

Keys to re-sale, for Sergio Fernandez

«1) Are you aware of the miracle of being alive? Are you taking advantage of this opportunity, this miracle, to lead a life full of meaning? What will you regret when you have a few minutes to live?

What are you going to tell your grandchildren? Are you going to tell them that you did not dare to live a meaningful life because in 2012 there was a crisis? Please don't be ridiculous.

Are you going to make your life worthwhile? I insist, are you aware of the miracle of being "around here"? Before Mario spoke of Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. I recommend a book by this psychiatrist: The wheel of life. He assured that it will provide you with the necessary awareness so that you value the miracle that being alive means.

If you have doubts with this, I recommend that you do the following: stop by from time to time to a hospital or cemetery and you will see that there are also people who forgot that one day they would stop being around here.

2) The second idea to reinvent ourselves is to remember that the best way to help others is to have a happy life. The best thing to help other people is to develop your own life project and if for that you have to reinvent yourself, do it. This is the greatest favor that you are going to do to your family, to your friends and to all the people around you because, pay attention, THEY DON'T WANT TO SEE YOU SADThey don't want to see you off, they don't want to see you being half of the project that you could become.

3) We need emotion.

Emotion means movement. Emotion is achieved by developing something that makes us excited. We live in a society with a deficit of passion that for my taste is intolerable. You get on the subway, on a bus or you go down the street and sometimes you don't know if we are zombies. We cannot continue with that deficit of passion.

Finding it is your responsibility. No one can do it for you.

Bibliography:

1) Live in the soul. A book to reinvent yourself in the familiar.

2) The money code. A book to reinvent yourself professionally.

3) The eternal secrets of health. A book to reinvent yourself in health.

Conclusion books that can change your life, books that can plant a seed in you that will germinate much sooner than you think.»Sergio Fernández from Positive thinking.