A Good Metaphor for Learning to Argue

- What causes people to yell when they get angry?
The two reflected for a moment:

- It is due to the loss of serenity - began one of them - That is the cause of a person starting to scream.

-I do not understand… Why does he scream if the other is next to him? Baba asked. "Can't you tell him anything by lowering your voice?" I still don't understand why one person yells at the other when they are angry.

The others offered Baba other explanations but there was not a single answer that pleased Baba.

In the end, Baba began to explain:

- If we meet 2 angry people we can understand that their hearts drift far away. Their screams are to counteract this withdrawal and make themselves heard. If the anger increases in degree, they will be forced to scream louder so that they can hear each other and cover that enormous gap.

Then Baba asked a question:

- What is the matter with love? What happens if we meet 2 lovers? They both don't use yelling to communicate. Instead we can see that his voice is quite low. What is the cause? The approach of their hearts, both are very close.

Baba continued:

- What happens when that love is very intense? They are hardly heard as they communicate through whispers and their love becomes more powerful. In the end, not even whispers are necessary, they are communicated with the look and gestures. This is the degree of closeness between 2 great lovers.

Finally Baba added:

- When they have a mixed opinion do not allow the distancing of your heartsThat words that increase that distance will not come from their mouths because there will come a time when this distance is so great that they will not know how to find their way back.

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