Many times we believe things that are not true. Either because we have had some bad experience or because they have transmitted it to us in that way and we have learned it without even checking that it was true.
You have to be clear about one thing: you are an independent person who decides what you want to believe and what you don't. With this I want to tell you that do not trust what others say and firmly believe in yourself. This way you will know that you are in the right direction.
Next we are going to see 3 beliefs that you should get out of your mind.
1) My enemies are right about me
It is true that there are some moments where negativity takes over our mind and body. It is in those moments when we think that our adversaries are above us and we can do nothing to stand up to them.
Many times people react unfavorably due to past experiences or wounds that have not healed. Whether we like it or not, people's opinion is very valuable to us… but we have to know how to give it the place it deserves.
Life is too short to argue or fight. Take advantage of these opinions to improve if you think it is necessary, but do not let them take over your mind at any time; you are stronger than them and choose exactly what you want to think and say.
2) It is important that my family and friends approve my goals
It is true that we all like them to support our projects. They give us that extra energy or "push" that we need to keep going.
However, we don't always get it. People close to us can give us opinions that will destroy us ... although they will always claim that they do it with the best intention; and it's true.
The best thing you can do is, if you are truly convinced that your project can succeed and succeed, is to move on. That no one is able to sink or criticize something that you have worked on for a long time.
When you reach the end, everyone will say that they supported you during that journey, although you will know well that it was not like that.
3) I'm not good enough
!Fake! Immediately push that thought away from you. We all have a gift and a place in this life. It may be that a certain project resists us, that we cannot move forward, that we think about throwing in the towel ... but surely with effort and work we can move forward.
When this thought comes to your head you have to push it away at all costs. People around you have always expected great things from you ... and they may be annoyed that you have not followed the path they had planned.
Do not be afraid to break with the established and follow exactly the route that you want, without having to follow any type of opinion or be conditioned by another person.
Remember: only you decide what to do and no one can change that for you.