Today we are going to teach you how to deal with selfish people, therefore, before giving way to these 10 tips that we have prepared for you, I would like you to see this video before, whose protagonists are the most dedicated people on the planet: mothers.
Tomorrow is Mother's Day, which in Spain is celebrated on the first Sunday in May, so we have brought this video that reflects the sacrifice of any good mother:
[mashshare]Having seen this video, an example of dedication and generosity, we are going to move on to the opposite pole of the personality of some human beings: selfishness. We'll see 10 ways to deal with selfish people:
1) Accept that they have no consideration for others
They just want to achieve their goals and they do not care to trample on the rights of others in order to achieve what they want. If you want to deal with them, you will have to start by accepting it: it is something that is in their nature and that is very difficult to change.
2) Meet your needs
A selfish person is only going to worry about himself, so don't expect him to make any sacrifices for you. They are true "emotional pirates" who can drag you into a pit of despair. Don't worry about them and learn to take care of yourself.
3) Stay true to yourself, don't get on their level
Don't get into their game. If you can't avoid these types of people, stick to your principles. Life will take care of putting everyone in their place and will be able to give them what they really deserve.
4) They must be reminded that the world does not revolve around them
Sometimes they need a lesson in humility so we will have to remind them that the world does not need them and that they are just one more.
5) They look for new ways to get attention
In the event that they see that people pass on them, they will always try to find a way to make someone listen to them. To deal with such a person the best thing you can do is ignore him and he will get tired of trying to feel sorry.
6) He will only talk about the topics that interest him
When a topic that interests you appears, you will be the first to speak and tell your whole life. However, when you try to change the subject, it will automatically lose all interest and it will be as if it is no longer there.
7) Beware of favors
These people are always asking for favors and will thank us as soon as we have done them. However, in the event that we are the ones who ask them, they will make all kinds of excuses. This is why we have to prevent them from getting away with it and never do them favors.
8) Limit the time you spend with them
These people are completely destructive so you don't want to spend a lot of time with them. If you really don't feel good around them, the best thing you can do is disappear from their lives. Find new friends and forget about them.
9) Find new friends
Surely you can find new friends who are really able to value you and give as much as you give them. In this way, a relationship of pure and authentic friendship is established that will last for a long time.
With selfish people this is simply impossible.
10) cut the relationship
If you really discover that this relationship is going nowhere (be it a friendship or a relationship) the best thing you can do is cut it before it is too late. With these people you can not get anywhere and surely they will not change in life.
The truth is that the best thing (in my opinion) is to cut the relationship or limit to the MAXIMUM the time of exposure to SELFISH people (unless they change, which is very complicated). I think there are so many people out there who are worth meeting to have to WASTE with selfish people. A hug, Pablo
Egoism is a characteristic of toxic personalities When you detect a selfish person you realize that after spending a while with them, if you feel exhausted or low on energy, it is because that person is not really pleasant to you and you should put it aside.
Very well explained. They are vampires.