7 ways to limit ourselves without even realizing it

1) We let our "failures" take over our future decisions.

There is a girl that you like a lot. She goes to your class and you don't stop looking at her. Would you like to talk to her, invite her for a walk ... in short, learn more about her to see if you can end up being her boyfriend. However, you remember that time a girl looked at you with disgust when you invited her for a drink at the disco.

That fact has been etched in your memory and you think that all your attempts to interact with other girls will end in the same way ... and you don't want to go through that drink a second time, so you just keep looking at it and you know that it will never be yours .

2) We follow the crowd.

It is easier not to have to make a decision and to be carried away by the flow. We just follow the "Bank of fish" without stopping to ask: Is this what I really want to do?

What if you change your mind? What if your experiences have somehow changed your perspective on life? No one promotes "going against the grain." We take the easier route instead of the road less traveled. They have conditioned us that way.

3) We always stay in the safe zone.

Growing up, we were told that we could be anything we wanted ... but only if we were careful and cautious.

Our enthusiasm to do something new and perhaps a little dangerous is just what our psyche needs.

4) We have no hope.

Life has wonderful things, but there is also confusion, hatred and animosity. There are entire generations in certain countries who have little hope of a good future.

However, they have to know that there are also many people in the same situation who have come forward. Have to search a role model and imitate his steps. Only in this way will they be able to grow the plant of hope.

5) We don't listen to our hearts.

Our heart asks that we listen to it to try to find what feeds our souls and to improve the lives of others in any way that we can.

6) We leave many projects in the middle.

We give up at the first change because it is difficult and we have no guarantee of success. We wash our hands of any responsibility and excuse ourselves by saying, «I did what I could ... it just didn't work out».

7) We forget our "why".

Most of us don't commit to something unless we believe we are going to be successful. There has to be a possibility of achieving what we want to achieve. We forget the reasons that prompted us to want to achieve our goal.

I leave you with a video that invites you to think about your whys:

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