Unyanzvi hwemagariro ndidzo hunyanzvi hwatinoshandisa kutaurirana nekudyidzana, zvese neshoko uye zvisiri zvekutaura, kuburikidza nemutauro, kuita kwese, mutauro wemuviri, uye nechitarisiko chedu pachedu. Vanhu zvisikwa zvinofambidzana uye isu takagadzira nzira dzakawanda dzekutaurirana mameseji edu, pfungwa, uye manzwiro nevamwe. Iyo yakakosha kwatiri uye ndosaka tichikoshesa zvakanyanya kwazviri kubva pakuzvarwa.
Kutaurirana kwakakosha kune vanhu uye kunowanikwa kuburikidza nehunyanzvi hwemagariro. Izvo zvinotaurwa zvinokanganiswa nemitauro yematauriro uye matauriro atinoita (matauriro ezwi, huwandu hwekutaura, uye mazwi atinosarudza), pamwe nemamwe meseji asinganzwisisike senge mutauro wemuviri, masaini, uye dzimwe nzira dzisiri dzekutaura.
Kune vanhu vari nani "vekudyidzana" pane vamwe, nekuda kweichi chikonzero kune zvakawandisa zvidzidzo pamusoro pehunhu uye mashandiro ehukama hwekudyidzana. Kugadziridzwa kwehunyanzvi hwemagariro ndezve kuziva nzira yatinotaurirana nayo nevamwe, mameseji atinotumira, uye nzira dzekutaurirana dzinogona kuvandudzwa kuita nzira yatinotaurirana nayo inyatsoita uye inoshanda.
Zvakanakira kuve nehunyanzvi hwehukama
Hukama hwehukama hwehukama
Kuva neyakanaka nzira yekutaurirana nevamwe kunoita kuti iwe uwane dzimwe shamwari. Sezvaunokudziridza hunyanzvi hwako hwemagariro, unowedzera kushamisika, hunhu hunodikanwa nemunhu wese. Vanhu vanofarira vanhu vane hushamwari, sezvavari (kana zvirinani kuita kunge) vanofarira ivo pachavo nevamwe.
Vazhinji vanhu vanoziva kuti haugone kusvika kure muhupenyu pasina hukama hwakasimba hwehukama. Kufunga nezvehukama kuchakubatsira iwe kuwana basa, kuwana kukwidziridzwa, uye kuita shamwari nyowani. Unyanzvi hwakasimbiswa hwemagariro hunogona kuwedzera mufaro wako uye kugutsikana nekukupa iwe zviri nani maonero muhupenyu. Uye zvakare, kuve nehukama hwakanaka nevamwe vanhu kunobatsirawo iwe kudzora kushushikana kare wedzera kuzviremekedza.
Kubatana kuri nani
Kubatana nevanhu uye kushanda mumapoka akakura kunobatsira iwe kuve nehunyanzvi hwekutaurirana. Mushure mezvose, haugone kuve nehunyanzvi hwekudyidzana pasina hunyanzvi hwekutaurirana uye Kugona kuburitsa zvaunofunga nemazano ako hungave hunyanzvi hunonyanya kukosha hwaunokudziridza muhupenyu.
Ipfungwa yakanaka kuti kana iwe uchifunga kuti hauna kutaurirana zvakanaka kana kuti hunyanzvi hwako hwemagariro handizvo zvauri kuda, iwe unomanikidza mamiriro ekuti ukwanise kutaura kune vamwe vanhu. Nenzira iyi iwe unogona kudzidzira zvakanyanya, zvinogona kuve mune yekudyira, pamwe nemushamarita wechitoro, nezvimwe.
Kubudirira kukuru
Kana iwe uchigona nevanhu, iwe unogona nyore nyore kudzivisa kuva nevanhu vausingade zvakanyanya sevamwe. Uye zvakare, vamwe vanozove vakanaka kwauri. Vamwe vanhu vanotya kudyidzana nekuti havadi kupedza nguva nevanhu vasina zvido zvakafanana uye nemaonero ... kana kuti vanototya kugara nevanhu vanoita zvakaipa.
Zviri nyore kwazvo kuenda kumusangano kubasa kana pati muhupenyu hwako wega kana uchiziva zvavo vamwe vevanhu vachange varipo. Kana iwe ukazviwana iwe uri mune yemagariro mamiriro uye iwe usingade kupedza nguva nemumwe munhu nekuti iwe haudi kana haugone kuvabatsira nedambudziko rakati, seti yakanaka yehunyanzvi hwehukama inokutendera iwe Ratidza zvine hunyoro zvaunoda kuti uwane nguva uine vamwe vanhu mumusangano.
Natsiridza maonero ako muhupenyu
Mabasa akakosha zvikuru ane 'chinhu chako' uye nzvimbo dzinopa mari zhinji dzinowanzo sanganisira yakawanda yenguva yekushandisa nevashandi, vezvenhau, nevamwe. Kashoma kuti munhu agare akasarudzika muhofisi yavo uye achakunda pabasa ravo.
Mazhinji makambani ari kutsvaga vanhu vane yakatarwa, hunyanzvi hwekuisa hunyanzvi - kugona kushanda nemazvo muchikwata uye kukurudzira uye kukurudzira vanhu kuti vaite zvinhu.
Iwe unenge uchifara zvakanyanya mune zvese
Kugarisana uye nekunzwisisa vanhu kuchakubatsira kuvhura mikova mizhinji inoenderana neyako basa kana zvakawandisa muhukama hwako wega. Kuva nechivimbo chekutanga hurukuro kumusangano une chekuita nebasa kunogona kutungamira kune chitsva chebasa chinopa muhoro wepamusoro. Kunyemwerera uye "hello" mune yemagariro mamiriro kunogona kutungamira kune hushamwari ... uye hushamwari hunogona kukupa iwe vanokosha vanofambidzana muhupenyu hwako.
Kana iwe ukawirirana nevanhu vakakukomberedza, iwe unozonzwa mufaro wakawanda nekuti iwe unozoona kuti havazi vese vanhu vakaipa kana vanoda kutora mukana wevamwe. Uyezve, ivo vanoda kubatsira. Kunyangwe ukasangana nevanhu vane huturu munzira yehupenyu hwako, ipapo chichava zano rakanaka kuti iwe uzive nzira yekuburitsa vanhu vane huturu kubva muhupenyu hwako kuti varege kupedza simba rako.
Hunhu hwehukama hwemagariro
Kuti unzwisise zvirinani hunyanzvi hwemagariro usarasikirwa nehunhu hunozvitsanangura kwazvo:
- Unyanzvi hwemagariro hunonangiswa kune chinangwa chemagariro kana chinangwa.
- Hunhu hunokwanisika munharaunda hunofambidzana mupfungwa yekuti munhu anokwanisa kushandisa hunopfuura hunhu humwechete panguva imwechete, nechinangwa chimwe chete.
- Unyanzvi hwemagariro hunofanirwa kunge hwakafanira mamiriro ekutaurirana. Unyanzvi hwakasiyana hwemagariro hunoshandiswa pakutaurirana kwehunyanzvi uye humwe kutaurirana wega.
- Hutano hwemagariro hunogona kuzivikanwa semamwe maitiro ehunhu ayo munhu anogona kutongwa nawo zvichienderana nekwaniso yavo yemagariro.
- Unyanzvi hwemagariro hunogona kudzidziswa, kudzidziswa, uye kudzidza.
- Unyanzvi hwemagariro hunofanirwa kunge huri pasi pekutonga kwekuziva kwemunhu; kuzvidzidza kunosanganisira kudzidza nguva yekushandisa mamwe maitiro, pamwe nemaitiro ekushandisa kana maitiro ekuashandisa.
Paunenge uchinge uine zvese izvi mupfungwa dzako, ipapo, iwe unozoziva kuti iwe unogona kunyatso kuvandudza hunyanzvi hwako hwemagariro uye kuti kuita kudaro kuchave nekukanganisa kukuru pahupenyu hwako nehwevanhu vakakukomberedza.