Before looking at these 9 aspects of the personality that make you a more attractive person, let me share with you the video of a girl that went viral a few years ago. Gather together some of the personality traits that I am going to highlight in this article.
You've probably seen the video by now but it's worth watching one more time because it's short and infuses a great deal of optimism and vitality:
Now we are going to look at a series of personality traits that, in my opinion, make a person highly attractive to me:
1) I like SPONTANEOUS people.
There is not much more to add. I flee from social conventions and I like those people who are natural and violate these conventions to some extent.
These kinds of people bring freshness to social interactions.
2) I like HAPPY people.
Who doesn't like happy and positive people? Joy is a contagious emotion, just like negativity. Negative people are capable of transmitting their bad energy to you and you end up turning gray. So try to surround yourself with those people who have a quality that you like.
3) I like BRAVE people.
I do not like people who try to get rid of a problem or inconvenience that arises in life. I like people who grab the bull by the horns and assume everything that is thrown in their face or is capable of facing anyone.
4) I like SINCERE people.
I like honesty even if it hurts (which usually hurts). Can you imagine a world in which human beings were programmed to always say what they think? mmmm I think it would be scary and we would be heading for a world war. Despite this, I praise people who speak the truth in socially awkward situations or in situations where they can look bad if they speak their minds.
5) I like WORKING people.
I do not like lazy people or people who do their work to dislike. I suppose that the latter is linked to the fact that a person likes their work but even if you don't like what you do, try to do it well ... you'll see how you end up catching the taste.
Jimmy Diresta is an example of good work. I use their videos to relax 🙂
6) I like HUMBLE people.
This point has reminded me of a YouTube character who became very famous a few years ago for being the opposite of humble. He called himself "Matías, el humilde" (note the irony). A young billionaire thanks to his parents and who has never hit the water:
Jokes aside, I like people who have a great personal quality and don't brag about it.
7) I like people who are SENSITIVE TO THE ENVIRONMENT.
I like people who take care of their natural environment and do everything in their power to take care of it, such as recycling and not littering. Recycle up to the oil and bring the organic matter to composting centers.
By not littering I mean not throwing a cigarette butt on the ground.
8) I like SOLIDARITY people.
I like people who are involved in projects to help the most disadvantaged and who are able to give away their time so that other people feel a little better.
9) I like IMPERFECT people.
In the event that a person meets all these characteristics that I am listing, we would be facing a perfect person ... and that makes me nervous. There are no perfect people, in fact, perfection does not exist and is even harmful 6 disadvantages of perfectionism.
In imperfection lies beauty.
10) I like people who READ BOOKS.
A person who reads is a calm, intelligent person who is capable of being alone. He is a thoughtful person and with whom you can have an intelligent conversation. This does not mean that you cannot have such a conversation with an illiterate person. There are even illiterate people who are much more interesting and thoughtful than any cultured and educated person.
11) I like people who grow a HOBBY.
Whether doing cross stitch, puzzles, model aircraft ... those people who are capable of dedicating 2 hours in a row to an activity that fulfills and satisfies them.
12) I like people who CARE FOR THEIR HEALTH.
I like people who do sports, take care of their diet and do not smoke or drink. Perfect people huh? 🙂 A person who does sports and takes care of his or her diet looks healthier… and therefore more beautiful.
And you? How do you like people? 🙂