Kukhona umbono ojwayelekile wokuthi asikwazi ukwenza okuningi ukuthuthukisa ubuhlakani bethu. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kungumbono oyiphutha. Iningi labantu lingenza okuningi izinto zokuthuthukisa ubuhlakani bakho.
Kunezinto zokuzilibazisa ezingaba nomthelela omkhulu ekuhlakanipheni kwethu. Nazi izinto zokuzilibazisa eziyi-10 ukukusiza ukuthi uhlakaniphe, konke kusekelwa izifundo zesayensi.
1) Dlala insimbi yomculo.
Umculo uvuselela ubuchopho futhi lokhu kukhonjisiwe ezifundweni eziningi. Inamandla okucela imizwa eyinkimbinkimbi nezimo ezinhle zengqondo. Abaphenyi abaningana bakhombisile ukuthi kokubili ukulalela umculo nokudlala insimbi yomculo kukhulisa amandla ememori.
Ukudlala insimbi yomculo kuphinde kufundise ukukhula kwesineke nokubekezela. ngoba kudinga isikhathi nomzamo ukufunda ukudlala insimbi yomculo. Iphinde ilole ukugxila.
2) Funda ngokuzimisela.
Ukufunda kunciphisa ukucindezeleka futhi kukusiza ukuthi uzwe kaningi imizwa emihle. Zonke lezi zinto zikusiza uzizwe ungcono ngawe; ukuba nokuthula nawe kungenye yezisekelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zenhlalakahle enhle.
Ukufunda kubaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni ulwazi lwakho esihlokweni, ukulungiselela zonke izinhlobo zezimo nokukhiqiza kangcono ekufezeni izinhloso zakho.
3) Zindla njalo
Amakholi ayizinkulungwane eziyikhulu azindla ngomhlaba ongcono.
Inzuzo ebaluleke kunazo zonke yokuzindla ukuthi ikusiza ukuthi ugxile kuwe ukuze wazi uqobo lwakho. Ukugxila ekuzindleni kusiza abantu ukuthi badlulele esimweni esiphakeme sokuphila.
Ukuzindla kusiza ukunciphisa amazinga okucindezeleka futhi kususe zonke izinhlobo zokukhathazeka. Isimo esizolile esinikezwa ukuzindla, ungafunda, ucabange, futhi uhlele izinto ngempumelelo enkulu.
Ukuzindla kukusiza ukuthi ukwazi ukuzilawula ngokugcwele. Ukwazi iziphazamiso nezindlela eziphumelelayo zokuzithiba kubaluleke kakhulu lapho kusebenza ukuthuthukisa ubuhlakani.
4) Vocavoca ubuchopho
Ubuchopho bomuntu ngakwesobunxele, ubuchopho behlengethwa ngakwesokudla.
Njengoba nje umuntu edinga zivocavoca njalo ukugcina umzimba wakho usesimweni, kufanele futhi uqeqeshe umqondo ukuze uhlale usesimweni esihle. Ukuphonsela inselelo njalo ubuchopho ukwenza izinto ezintsha kuthuthukisa amakhono abo futhi kubusize buhlale buqinile.
Ungaqeqesha ubuchopho bakho ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene: ama-sudokus, amaphazili, imidlalo yebhodi nezimfumbe.
Yonke le misebenzi isiza ubuchopho ukwakha ukuxhumana okusha. Ngale misebenzi ufunda nokuphendula ezimweni ngobuciko futhi uthuthukise amandla okubona izinto kusuka kunombono omkhulu wezinhlobo ezahlukene.
5) Ukuzivocavoca umzimba njalo
Ingqalabutho yeWWII eneminyaka engama-90, egijima isuka ogwini iya ogwini ukuze inyuse imali ngethemba lokuthi izobuyisela umkhumbi eNormandy ngezikhumbuzo zesikhathi esizayo ze-D-Day.
Umzimba ophilile usiza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi unengqondo ephilile. Phela, ubuchopho bufana nomunye umsipha emzimbeni. Ukuvivinya umzimba njalo kugcina ubuchopho nomzimba wakho kusebenza njengoba kufanele kunciphise ukucindezeleka nosizo ulale kangcono.
Odokotela bayavuma ukuthi ukujikeleza kwegazi okungcono kuya ebuchosheni kuholela ekwandeni kokusebenza kobuchopho. Izifundo ezahlukahlukene kumagundane nakubantu zikhombisile ukuthi ukuzivocavoca kwenhliziyo kungadala amangqamuzana amasha obuchopho, ngaleyo ndlela kuthuthukise ukusebenza kobuchopho jikelele.
6) Funda ulimi olusha
Ukufunda ulimi olusha akuwona umsebenzi olula ngaso sonke isikhathi, Kepha ngokuqinisekile kunezinzuzo eziningi zokuthola ubuhlakani.
Inqubo yokufunda ulimi olusha ifaka imisebenzi efana nokuhlaziya ukwakheka kohlelo nokufunda amagama amasha, enza ngcono ubuhlakani nempilo yobuchopho.
Kubonisiwe futhi ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo ezahlukahlukene ukuthi abantu abanamazinga aphezulu obuhlakani bomlomo bangcono ekuhleleni, ekwenzeni izinqumo, nasekuxazululeni izinkinga.
7) Bhala imizwa yakho
Kunezinzuzo eziningi ongazithola ngokubhala, kufaka phakathi ukwandisa izinga lakho elijwayelekile lobuhlakani.
Ukubhala kuthuthukisa amakhono akho olimi, kunjalo. Kepha futhi kusiza ukuthuthukisa amakhono njengokugxila, ukudala, ukucabanga nokuqonda.
Ababhali bavame ukubhekwa njengabantu abahlakaniphe kakhulu.
Ungabhala ngezindlela ezihlukile. Ungazenzela eyakho ibhulogi. Noma yini oyenzayo, unikeza amagama ezithombeni ezisengqondweni yakho; ufunda ukuziveza kahle futhi wandise ubuhlakani bakho.
8) Ukuhambela izindawo ezintsha
Ukuhamba akuyona nje indlela yokubulala isithukuthezi. Kungaphezulu kakhulu kwalokho. Ukuhamba kungakhulisa ubuhlakani bakho ngempela.
Ukusebenza ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo okubandakanyeka ekuhambeni kukhulula ingqondo yengcindezi. Njengoba uzikhulula ekucindezelekeni, uzokwazi kangcono ukugxila kweminye imisebenzi futhi ujulise ukuqonda kwakho umhlaba okuzungezile.
Indawo ngayinye entsha inikela ngezinto ezintsha ongazifunda. Uhlangana nabantu abehlukene, ukudla, amasiko, izindlela zokuphila, kanye nemiphakathi. Kukuthinta ukuxhumana nemibono obungeke uyicabange.
9) Ukupheka izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokudla
Abaningi bethu banomuzwa wokuthi ukupheka kumane nje kuwukuchitha isikhathi nokuthile esifuna ukukugwema.
Kepha esikhundleni sokukhononda, Kumele uzizwe ujabulile uma unethuba lokupheka. Abantu abathanda ukupheka banamazinga aphezulu wobuciko. Bazinikele kukhwalithi, abesabi ukuzama izitsha ezintsha futhi banaka kakhulu imininingwane.
Uma upheka, ufunda ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi.
10) Bamba iqhaza kwezemidlalo
Ukudlala imidlalo njalo kwenza ubuchopho buguquke kalula futhi kuthuthukise impilo yonke yobuchopho.
Ukubuka ezemidlalo kuye kwaxhunyaniswa nokwanda kokusebenza kobuchopho, futhi imisipha iyasetshenziswa ngokuzivocavoca umzimba. Ukubamba iqhaza kwezemidlalo kuthuthukisa nokuxhumana nokuzethemba.
Cabanga ukubamba iqhaza kolunye uhlobo lwezemidlalo njalo ukuze wandise ukusebenza kwengqondo yakho.